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Don Juan
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im 17. she doesn't look or act her age. i quite like her. i am considering to start seeing her. yes or no.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I would say no, unless there is true feelings, but i'll say this.Elti Boi said:im 17. she doesn't look or act her age. i quite like her. i am considering to start seeing her. yes or no.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
john paul said:just know that some of your friends might get jelous if she is sexy and start calling you a pedifile
i did that over a year and a half and they still call me a sex offender soemtimes
I wonder what sosuave moderators will think of a SEXUAL PREDATOR being reported. You sick bastardElti Boi said:im 17. she doesn't look or act her age. i quite like her. i am considering to start seeing her. yes or no.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dude is from canada. http://www.web.ca/clgro/consent.htmGreengrass said:I wonder what sosuave moderators will think of a SEXUAL PREDATOR being reported. You sick bastard
Yeah, mess with a girl who can get you in jail when you can do the exact same thing to a girl who won't get you in jail outside of rape, sounds like a plan to me.Quiksilver said:Fvck the haters, do what you want. I'm 19, and when I was 18 I hooked up with a 14 year old(mega hottie, one of those "wow she's THAT young?" girls) Her brother was there to, to "look out for her" which I found funny.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.