"She'll call me when she has time"

[My Name is Nobody]

OK Guys, I have my house spotless, smelling good, now i'm gonna take a shower and around 7pm walk to the restaurant. I want to call her and confirm, but I'm not gonna. I'm just gonna hope she shows up.

Wish me luck guys. I'm by no means a player. I deserve this. Havent really gotten laid in awhile.

I feel so confident right now. Do you guys think she'll show up??

Also I will get there early, should I drink a few beers while I wait for her? I am walking to th place so driving aint an issue.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Should I Call Her At Home Now And Confirm She Will Be There, Or Jst Go And Hope She Doesnt Stand Me Up??

 

[My Name is Nobody]

bump

come on guys please... should i call her to cfm if she'll be there, or just go and wait and hope she shows up?

sorry for sounding like a d1ck earlier... i was just excited.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

You wait there, no need to confirm it. If doesn't show up then you know you need to use other methods.

OK so I will NOT call her now to cfm she will be there.

She agreed to meet me there a few hours ago. BUT she is foreign and has an accent and im worried she might have gotten the signals mixed. know what i mean?

Now if I'm sitting there and its late and she hasnt shwon up THEN should I call? or just leave?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

If your worried about her being foreign and all, and if she doesn't show up. Call her up because she might have gotten things mixed up like you said and be like "Hey, just got to the restaurant, just wanted to make sure you are still comin, no hurries, i'll be right next to the "..." when you get here."

GREAT idea. Call her when I am at the restaurant.

Well guys I am leaving now. I am going to go, order a beer and then call her and make sure she is coming. thanks for the advise and wish me luck!

 

[seagull]

WRONG FOOLS!

I called her and she is meeting me at 8pm at a restaurant right next to my house!!!

HAHAHA you guys were wrong! She agreed to meet me tonight even though
I DID NOT listen to you. If I listened id be sitting home alone tonight!


So there is now a GOOD chance I can get her back to my place tonight. Meeting at 8pm. I can walk to the restaurant from my house.

Now hopefully she shows up.. and this woman is HOT!!! YEEE HAA!! I cant believe she agreed to meet me.,


What do you guys have to say now?

Bunch of know it alls my ass.

Some Girls like guys who PURSUE not wait around like p-ssies!

The advice given in this forum is general, no one knows your specific situation apart from you. Good work following your own intuition and setting up a date.

There's no need to act like a **** and slag people off though, since they were trying to help you.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

The advice given in this forum is general, no one knows your specific situation apart from you. Good work following your own intuition and setting up a date.

There's no need to act like a **** and slag people off though, since they were trying to help you.

I already apologized for that. I am leaving now. I will update later.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

she told me "she'll call me, but when she has time".

Does this mean I should never call her again if she never does indeed call me back?

No, that means that she has options that you do not.

Plate Theory

 

[Last Man Standing]

WRONG FOOLS!

I called her and she is meeting me at 8pm at a restaurant right next to my house!!!

HAHAHA you guys were wrong! She agreed to meet me tonight even though
I DID NOT listen to you. If I listened id be sitting home alone tonight!


So there is now a GOOD chance I can get her back to my place tonight. Meeting at 8pm. I can walk to the restaurant from my house.

Now hopefully she shows up.. and this woman is HOT!!! YEEE HAA!! I cant believe she agreed to meet me.,


What do you guys have to say now?

Bunch of know it alls my ass.

Some Girls like guys who PURSUE not wait around like p-ssies!

If she meets you then you know what this tells me? She was going to call you anyways!!! So you really didn't have to call again because she said that SHE will call you!!! You look desperate -- and she will have power over you and I'm sure that you will be too happy to comply!

 

[Last Man Standing]

Snorida, of course - but she said she will call him WHEN she has TIME!! That doesn't make sense - time is what she makes of it!! A curt vague response is not the best response for a showing of interest and it shows that SHE wants to be in control!

 

[insidious]

LOL this My Name Is Nobody dude is a riot.
You come on, seemingly seeking advice, and then you
go out, do your own thing, and come back to
berate everyone's opinions, now you're back
giving us a play by play of the pre-game festivities! LOL

Will you be online later when you get her back to
your pad, 'guys should I offer her water' 'guys should
I sit next to her right away' 'guys, where should I
stick my c0ck?'

Your best move was following your instincts. Sometimes that
works, sometimes it doesn't, I'm glad it worked in this case.

Good luck, and don't forget to put a jacket on the dork!

 

[Alphamale1821]

good luck my name is nobody it sounds like your gonna need it. Looking forward to your update

 

[tmpgstx]

You're in the friend zone MNIN. A good way to get there fast is to kiss her on the cheek, which is very effiminate. A man either hugs her tightly in a 'manly' way or kisses her on the lips. Her girlfriends kiss her on the cheek.

You call later that evening as if you didn't have anything better to do. I don't see how she can have any sexual interest in you. It would be surprising. A man with things to do is attractive, and who takes his time and has some patience.

She's too comfortable around you (this early on) to be into you sexually.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Things did not go well.

We ate at the restauraunt and went back to my place for some TV.

I found out she is 47 years old.

She said in her culture it is against the rules to fool around with a man half her age. She said I could be her son. LOL

So she left and I didnt even get a kiss.

I dont want to give up on this. I'm going to call her again tomorrow for the hell of it and invite her over again.

There has to be some way to overcome this age thing.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Are you blind??? You didn't know she was 47? No wonder her hesitation on your approach!!!

She is lonely -- all 47 year olds are!!! you have a chance - but let it cool for a while!!

How old are you?

She is 47 - no wonder she wanted control - all is clear now!

 

[MacDiddy]

.... Like we didn't see that one coming.... NOT


She's already made her mind up thanks to your desparate actions which many viewers here tried to warn you about...

You are a little boy with no way of taming her...

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Are you blind??? You didn't know she was 47? No wonder her hesitation on your approach!!!

She is lonely -- all 47 year olds are!!! you have a chance - but let it cool for a while!!

How old are you?

She is 47 - no wonder she wanted control - all is clear now!

I'm 27. She doesn't look 47! More like 35.

Anyway I'm gonna give it one more go today. If I fail, I dont really care. Who cares about a 47 year old? Not like a future is there, unless somehow I fall in love with her, which i doubt. I would just like to bang her.

I am going to call her around lunch time and invite her over for a movie as "friends". Maybe I can get some alcohol in her.

EDIT

So Last Man, do you thik shes interested in screwing but playing the "culture thing im too young" as an excuse for control?

Think I still have a chance to hit it?

OH and can a 47 yr old get preggo or can I raw dawg? Assuming she doesnt have a disease?

 

[Obsidian]

why the hell are you chasing after old maids? Women LOSE value with age, you know, kinda like cars.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

why the hell are you chasing after old maids? Women LOSE value with age, you know, kinda like cars.

She still looks good.

No wrinkles, petite frame.

Very bangable.

Gonna call her in a few hours and invite her over tonight.

She has GOT to have SOME sexual interest in a young stud. Don't all older women fantasize about banging a young buck?

 

[Obsidian]

depends partly on how masculine the young buck is. In your case, I'm not so sure. It also depends on how she wants to be viewed by others who might find out about it.