"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Shed the Mask

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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touge

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Great link

Very true and I can relate it to my life in ways, i've had a bad history of talking sh8t to gain self worth.
 

DJVladdy

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Please make this a sticky.
Great

I loved and hated the article: "no its not me, it can't be me, I'm not like this...... **** it, it IS about me" - how i thought about it.
 

Voice

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I agree, great article. I didn't realize how much I do this.
 

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Serious question; does this apply on an OCD sufferer? Should I divulge this fact, or is that a sure way to make an girl run a mile?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dice

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"You can either live pretending to be someone, or actually work towards becoming that person."
great article but this quote contradicts itself
 

yungahdubz

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dice said:
great article but this quote contradicts itself
Not really, all it's saying is that instead of pretending to be the someone you want to be, actually BECOME that person, because that is what you want, your goal.
 
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