Hey guys, I'm posting under a new name but I've been around the scene for a few years with some good success but have been out due to LTR for about 3 or so years. Lost some game, but studying and playing around again and could use some of you guys who are fresh and alive in the scene to 'shed some light'....
Currently in an office environment I have attraction from 2 girls and looking to make them chase me. One is the declared 'hottie' (HBAlmost9) of the office who gets attention from every guy and at least one guy actively chasing her, the other (HB7) is lower key but cute and reasonably valuable in terms of social/work value... Let it be known, that both of these females know I have a current LTR (yes i'm climbing uphill) and I have her pictures hanging in my cubicle lol
HBAlmost9 and I have no Rapport or connection as we only talk when we go out socially as a work group, other than that I basically actively disengage from her in the office as not to trip into the LJBF zone like many other of my colleagues. We have been out alone (almost, me and her and her friend) and at that time, HBAlmost9 witnessed me gaming her friend who I gained attraction from from the start and #closed her eventho she had a bf at the time.... So my social status as a 'guy that gets girls' is pretty much solid so i'm looked at as a potential 'lay'. She eyefvcks me when we're out as a group, as I'm' doing my PUA thing with other girls in the venue or socializing with the guys and we've crossed the touch barrier lots of cavemanning and BT-game ('ur my lil sister' --> 'im gonna adopt you' ect...) so attraction is there...
OK so the problem is I've laid the attraction game but there is absolutely ZERO COMFORT and we all know, that means STOP DONT PASS GO, NO SEX. She is unwilling to allow me to get to know her, i'm the dangerous 'player' guy and her ASD is super charged.... how in the world do I get into a situation where it looks casual and friendly but can connect with her to start building trust and comfort ???? Is it even possible in this situation or juss leave it alone.... again I don't necessarily want or need this girl, its just more of my practice as I get back in the game, transitioning from attraction to comfort.
Thanks fellas !!!
Currently in an office environment I have attraction from 2 girls and looking to make them chase me. One is the declared 'hottie' (HBAlmost9) of the office who gets attention from every guy and at least one guy actively chasing her, the other (HB7) is lower key but cute and reasonably valuable in terms of social/work value... Let it be known, that both of these females know I have a current LTR (yes i'm climbing uphill) and I have her pictures hanging in my cubicle lol
HBAlmost9 and I have no Rapport or connection as we only talk when we go out socially as a work group, other than that I basically actively disengage from her in the office as not to trip into the LJBF zone like many other of my colleagues. We have been out alone (almost, me and her and her friend) and at that time, HBAlmost9 witnessed me gaming her friend who I gained attraction from from the start and #closed her eventho she had a bf at the time.... So my social status as a 'guy that gets girls' is pretty much solid so i'm looked at as a potential 'lay'. She eyefvcks me when we're out as a group, as I'm' doing my PUA thing with other girls in the venue or socializing with the guys and we've crossed the touch barrier lots of cavemanning and BT-game ('ur my lil sister' --> 'im gonna adopt you' ect...) so attraction is there...
OK so the problem is I've laid the attraction game but there is absolutely ZERO COMFORT and we all know, that means STOP DONT PASS GO, NO SEX. She is unwilling to allow me to get to know her, i'm the dangerous 'player' guy and her ASD is super charged.... how in the world do I get into a situation where it looks casual and friendly but can connect with her to start building trust and comfort ???? Is it even possible in this situation or juss leave it alone.... again I don't necessarily want or need this girl, its just more of my practice as I get back in the game, transitioning from attraction to comfort.
Thanks fellas !!!