"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she will only cheat if you let her

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True love comes from TRUST!

..BLA::BLA



True love comes from TRUST!

Why should 2 people spend time to fight the LOVE GAME?

- well they are STUPID (avarage IQ)

TRUE: Of course they know and they are MAD!


Bud we are all MAD:

We are humans,...

Still my opinion is:

TRUE LOVE

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So leave the person, she/ he is not worth your love!

// Jessica
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Re: True love comes from TRUST!

Originally posted by Jessica
..BLA::BLA



True love comes from TRUST!

Why should 2 people spend time to fight the LOVE GAME?

- well they are STUPID (avarage IQ)

TRUE: Of course they know and they are MAD!


Bud we are all MAD:

We are humans,...

Still my opinion is:

TRUE LOVE



// Jessica
What the **** is this forum coming to?
 

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English isn't your native language now is it?
 

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Re: Re: True love comes from TRUST!

Originally posted by italostud
What the **** is this forum coming to?
She speaks the truth!

:crazy:
 

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Still Love have a language,

Hello,

My language is not english,

Still Love have a language,

Still CHEAT have a language,

Please, Do not ever be in a relationship where you
are cheated.

If you are,..

Go....

//Jessica
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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friv, you obnoxious crybaby, talk less and listen more and maybe you wouldn't get **** around like the sissy you are. you don't contribute anything to this forum except dumb theories and pointless arguments against people that actually have something worth contributing.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
take that however you want to.

but its a fact.

she will leave u before she will cheat..unless u let her
Your half right, no b!tch would risk cheating on ME.
However I've got a tenner that says your chick will be up to her guts in another guys nuts pretty soon. ( if she already hasnt )

Even if she doesnt get tired of the feminised puzzy you portray yourself to be here, shes a young "christian" isnt she? You can usually countdown the days before they go off the rails and turn into the "bad girl".

The odds are severely stacked against you, if you can make it to age 24 without finding out your b!tch has been grabbing her ankles somewhere else, I personally will be asking you to turn water into wine.


Wow so if I have better game than every other tool it will reduce her chances of sleeping around? Thanks Einstein for that shocking revelation.
 

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friv, you obnoxious crybaby, talk less and listen more and maybe you wouldn't get **** around like the sissy you are. you don't contribute anything to this forum except dumb theories and pointless arguments against people that actually have something worth contributing.

hey fyck you.

listen to what you?

or some afc reading from a manual?

I post therioes!!!

HAHAA YOUR A LOSER...ANOTHER AFC WHO DOESNT KNOW SHYT..

AMAZING!

dont worry im just about done here..I think ive helped everyone who can be helped....
you know the guys who get women..unlike u

Your half right, no b!tch would risk cheating on ME.
what, dont you date men?


I personally will be asking you to turn water into wine.

I live in the St. Louis, mo area....so you better be prepared to by a round trip for it.

I will be 24 in about 11 months.

have fun flying over the atlantic
 

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Wow so if I have better game than every other tool it will reduce her chances of sleeping around? Thanks Einstein for that shocking revelation.

dawg, you sleep with men...im still not sure what you are talking about
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
A woman won't cheat if she has no reason to.

If the man continues to stimulate her emotionally and sexually, she won't have any reason to look elsewhere to fulfill her needs.
'nuf said .... I think this says it all
 

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Re: Still Love have a language,

Originally posted by Jessica
Hello,

My language is not english,

Still Love have a language,

Still CHEAT have a language,

Please, Do not ever be in a relationship where you
are cheated.

If you are,..

Go....

//Jessica
WTF WTF WTF !!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Holy Fyck

:rolleyes: Guys shut the fyck up, and get off of the computer, go do something with you're lives. You're talking sh!t to eachother over an internet forum...

BTW friv, I'm pretty sure your girl was calling me daddy last night. :p

Now for christssake don't ever post again!
 

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With exception for a few replies, this thread turned out about useless. The topic is "she will only cheat if you let her"...So, if I'm corrrect, the conventional DJ wisdom rule of thumb is if your girl tells you she's going out with this one guy "friend", or to the club, a party, etc., basically any suspicious activity, we should:

1) Act like we don't care so as to seem non-jealous and noncontrolling, etc.
Or as MoM, and a few others state, we should:

2) Basically put our foot down on, knowing either she might fall into some temptation if she goes out and it was all a sh1t test anyway, and this is how best to respond to it.

Anyone knows IF the girl really loves you and is devoted and she a good girl, you're fulfilling all her needs blah blah, she is less likely to cheat. Specific tactics more than wishful thinking and fairytales is what it should be about.

So the real question is how best to respond to not "let" her cheat. So is 1 or 2 best as a rule of thumb and how would you phrase it to her? There's got to be a better route than just nexting everytime sh!t like this comes up...
 

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well looks like there is alot of confusion in this post
 

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Thats it Playaaahh stick with what you know, the ebonics isnt cutting it.

its Obvious you arent from the united states.

and I dont see why you act me..

are you that insecure and jealous?
 

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Listen up guys

You over estimate the difference between men and women in this forum so much. Many women i've met are adult, trust worthy, good natured souls, who only want a happy contented life.
Everything here should be compared with what you already know, not taken as truth. And if you don't have any experiance... well... you need it... really, lower your stardards if you must.
Not every painting is a master piece, but keep trying and learning and soon... you get what I mean.
Women, of course, trust thier, instincts and feelings more than men. But essentially we're all human, want the same things from a partner/mate, and when they're not there then we look else where.
Women, are and feel, more vunrable when alone, and rightfully so. Due to they're weekness of spirt, often find it hard to break away from a man (Often in love with her) so they have to step from stone to stone instead of jump.
Well this is what i've seen.

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Recent convo:

Girl: Awww... im gonna call you ollypoo, your so sweet!
Me: Oh ok, Your gonna be pork chop.
Girl: *Giggle* Why pork chop?
Me: Beacuse your just a piece of meat to me
Girl: ..........Sorry?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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