BobFuest
Senior Don Juan
So following the don juan methods i met up with a great chick. We have been dating (about 2-3 time a week) for about a month and things were great. she called me all the time to come over and sleep with her and have sex and I met a lot of her friends. She even took me out on my birthday.
Let me tell you about her. this girl and I are just dating and all her friends are guys so it would be stupid to think she may not have a guy somewhere else. Guys like her but shes not a total attention ***** or "needy" for guys attention. She doesnt seem like a total *****.
Now (lately), she acts weird towards me. Not so weird as, "not as hot as before". things cooled off a little. We havent had sex in about a week and every night i was there this last week she has not asked me to sleep over. But she calls me every other day to come hangout. Which i do go most of the time. but it ends up with me going home when she goes to bed. So i tell her straight forward if I am wasting my time or if she really likes me. she says, "oh no, i like you like you like you." So ok, it was her rag or whatever so i give it to that. Then she still calls me to hangout (same week) but like i said, no sex or sleeping over. So i ask her today, "are you mad or something? because your acting a little weird lately." she says,"no everything is fine, i like you." which i said, "of course you like me. you wouldnt call me if you didnt."
Then she had to go to michigan and I gave her a ride to her friend's because i was going that way. We arrive and some older guy comes out and she gives me a hug but no kiss... This guy tries to come over and befriend me too. see who i am. He is suppose to be her friend's uncle..
Now i have entertained the thoughts of another alpha male takin my spot but why would she keep calling and telling me she likes me? She has gone in the other room and talked on the phone too when i come over (she has roomates that i am friends with so it seems very "hangout"). But we even joked about us having sex again soon before i dropped her off which confused me a whole lot more. I was (it seemed) the one she calls up for sex and cuddling but she hasnt wanted to really do that lately.
So, please help me with this. Am i getting played? maybe there is something she wants from me? Am i turning myself into an AFC just thinking about it? Should i just drop this now? Sorry so long but this was the only place i could turn and i actually like her and feel like i am letting it slip away... Btw she is not the only girl i am dating and I do get laid by other women (in case that makes a difference). Is being nice and doing things for her at this stage bad? not everything but i am helpful and a good guy about things.
Let me tell you about her. this girl and I are just dating and all her friends are guys so it would be stupid to think she may not have a guy somewhere else. Guys like her but shes not a total attention ***** or "needy" for guys attention. She doesnt seem like a total *****.
Now (lately), she acts weird towards me. Not so weird as, "not as hot as before". things cooled off a little. We havent had sex in about a week and every night i was there this last week she has not asked me to sleep over. But she calls me every other day to come hangout. Which i do go most of the time. but it ends up with me going home when she goes to bed. So i tell her straight forward if I am wasting my time or if she really likes me. she says, "oh no, i like you like you like you." So ok, it was her rag or whatever so i give it to that. Then she still calls me to hangout (same week) but like i said, no sex or sleeping over. So i ask her today, "are you mad or something? because your acting a little weird lately." she says,"no everything is fine, i like you." which i said, "of course you like me. you wouldnt call me if you didnt."
Then she had to go to michigan and I gave her a ride to her friend's because i was going that way. We arrive and some older guy comes out and she gives me a hug but no kiss... This guy tries to come over and befriend me too. see who i am. He is suppose to be her friend's uncle..
Now i have entertained the thoughts of another alpha male takin my spot but why would she keep calling and telling me she likes me? She has gone in the other room and talked on the phone too when i come over (she has roomates that i am friends with so it seems very "hangout"). But we even joked about us having sex again soon before i dropped her off which confused me a whole lot more. I was (it seemed) the one she calls up for sex and cuddling but she hasnt wanted to really do that lately.
So, please help me with this. Am i getting played? maybe there is something she wants from me? Am i turning myself into an AFC just thinking about it? Should i just drop this now? Sorry so long but this was the only place i could turn and i actually like her and feel like i am letting it slip away... Btw she is not the only girl i am dating and I do get laid by other women (in case that makes a difference). Is being nice and doing things for her at this stage bad? not everything but i am helpful and a good guy about things.