"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She was rude and disrespectful

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she sounds like she sucks at life and has a real hate for the world. does she have any friends?
 
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Didnt know this thread was still alive.

Anyway, its all over between us.

I could have walked away with the power and control and have her running back but i blew it. I sent her a lame ass email calling her on her behaviour. And of cos she defended her position with her assumptions. In the mail i told her that its over but the AFC in me thought otherwise and sent out a make up letter after reading hers.

Told her that we shld meet up for coffee to talk. She said that shes given up trying anyway but i still insisted.

We met up and it sucked. She cldnt be honest. She behaved like some dumb 2 yr old. She pulled away when i tried to touch her. She sounded happy and excited when some guy called her. I could have just walked away but i stayed. GOD! I'm such a bloody wuss.


Its been 3 weeks and i still hate my guts when i think abt my AFC actions. Anyway, this experience improved my game alot. Lesson learnt is dont let such girls get to you. Maintain your composure at all costs. Even if they piss you off, tell them in a calm manner. IF they still persist, ignore them all together. IF she comes running back, then lay yr terms, if she doesnt then its good riddence.

And at all costs....STICK TO YOUR GUNS!!
 
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