she wants you to get jealous, a test or a cry out for you to appreciate her?

[big weezy]

you always hear girls complaining about how their bf's dont get jealous and subsequently she tries things to make him jealous which either work or fail..

what is the stand point on this?

i know she tests you to see if you get jealous, but if you never fall for the tests i have heard she feels you dont appreciate or care about her and subsequently cheats on you in some way or form.

is this jealousy rubbish women say 'women want to make their bf's jealous' just a ploy?

 

[Zodiac]

Seems to be true. Happened to me once or twice before I broke out of being an AFC so I tried everything to get her back... what a big mistake. If this is happening to you man just cut the ***** out of your life and don't look back at all. Best thing you or anyone could do at that point is just move on with your life and be happy.

 

[Cherokee]

From every girl I've spoken too, they want a man to show he cares enough to give a damn, but NEVER be actually "jealous".

Jealousy shows a lack of trust.

And you can give a damn but not be jealous by being ****y/funny.

e.g. if your girl has just finished chatting to a hunk when she knows you're watching (they do this as a classic **** test to see how insecure you are) you can say something like...

"Before you ask, no I don't want a threesome with another guy" and then wink.

Always, always, ALWAYS do it in a ****y/funny way, anything else just shows insecurity.

Women are genetically programmed to find the best man who offers the best survival value, we are the hunters, the rocks, the suave motherf*ckers... but they also want us to have a heart. If you can find the perfect balance, you'll have women eating out of your palms.

 

[big weezy]

so the general consensus is dont ever show jealousy but show that you care.. so even if you dont fall for her jealousy tests and she goes and b1tchs about you to her male orbiters and gf's that you dont get jealous at all and she doubts herself if you still find her attractive.. is this not ideal either?

i can imagine her suddenly thinking that you dont appreciate her enough and she'll just fool around with one of the orbiters cos you didnt fall for the test.

 

[big weezy]

also is it BS when they want you to sweep in if say they're on a dancefloor and some guy tries to dance with her or try it on with her?

i know she should really tell the guy to back off and the issue is with her if she doesnt respect you enough to tell the guy to get lost but just stands there and lets it happen.

is there some test where she wants you to sweep in and save her?