“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She wants you ASAP vs Later. Are there obvious differences.

jafyk

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This question might sound like a dumb question to ask to begin but please put your judgements aside and clarify. Thanks.
There are obvious signs that a woman is attracted to a man such as playing with her hair, touching you, mirroring your body language etc. So, my question is are there very more specific signs one should be looking out for to let you know that she is looking for some action ASAP as opposed to "I'm attracted to you and I know I'd like to do you but I'ill just like to get to know you a bit longer". I guess what I'm saying is that in a social setting of course men and women see people they are attracted to and while they acknowledge it to themselves they don't necessarily act on for various reasons (e.g maybe they are in a LTR and don't want to cheat). So, if you went out to another social gathering and a woman's goal for that period is to find someone to hook up with does she send any other signals other than the usual I'm attracted to you? Or is there no difference?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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In my experience, it's all in the touch and language. They start getting touchy-feely very quickly and start with the sexual innuendo. If I dig back, I'll play along and suggest "let's get out of here" before too long.
 

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Listen to me fat boy,

All this playing with hair, licking her lips, etc. I have been with scores of women, not one has licked their lips at me or played with their hair. I would find that odd. In fact, I think it's disgusting that a woman plays with her hair if she has a sandwich on her other hand. But, I have noticed this; EYE CONTACT, and a smile. And, most importantly, what she says to you. If she asks you questions; she likes you. If you keep asking questions; she is borderline with you. THERE IS ONLY ONE WAY TO FIND OUT. "I think you have a very pretty smile, are you single or what?" Something to that extent. Either 1) She will say I have a boyfriend, thank you fuvk off 2) Yeah I'm single, blush, and smile (which means she finds you attractive or is horny).

It's okay to be straightforward once you start talking to a girl. Just do it in a polite, sexy, and gentle manner. What's the moral of the story? WOMEN DON'T ACT ON IT. THAT IS YOUR JOB.
 

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Hey Skinny dude, or is it Falcon
Just because you haven't had the experiences you have mentioned doesn't mean others haven't. You are pretty much given me answers anybody could've given me. The basic answers you gave me are answers that show a woman is either interested or open to approach it doesn't mean that she's wants to do it that same day. Sometimes you should really read what someone writes before you start trying to flex your intellectual muscle. There's a difference between a woman showing you that she's interested and that she wants you to F her that moment.
 

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Here's what women do when they want to f you at the moment fat boy;
NOTHING

It's up to you to seduce them. It has nothing to do with signs, interest, or anything. If you can seduce them, you can lay them. Within reason.The only difference is, some make it easier on you then others. Does that make sense? No woman, that I can think of, comes straight out and says "I'm horny, lets fuvk!". Unless they are on cocaine or very drunk. It is up to YOU, you have to assume they all want you. Right then, right there.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What's with the fat boy? Does it make you feel better to be condescending huh? While, I could see your point...still there's something missing. Are you telling me that every time a girl has given you signs (oh my bad they don't give any signs as you say) and you went for her and she was into you, you proceeded to take her home and F' her? Now, if you say yes then I'ill be under the impression that you are either a liar or that you've been with a small amount of women. I know that most times just because a woman is interested in you doesn't mean she's gonna put out right away unless it was her intention to do so to begin with.
Why is this? Well, some women know that when they put out immediately (whether they are sluts or not) that men tend to view them that way. I've met girls and we did it that same night. From experience I also know that there are women that might act interest just to shoot a guy down which brings me back to my initial question, which one person understood and answered. You are here telling me they do nothing they don't even give any signs. Sure whatever, if this was my first time on this site I might actually believe this fallacy.
 
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