"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she wants to take a break and be friends for a lil

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hey me and my girl have been goin out for five months things were all good she was obsessed with me when we first started goin out but things were good most of the time we argued but nothing serious. i was a bit over protective of her and acted insecure. so last week she said we needed a break and she needed time to think about wether or not she wants a relationship so we can be friends for a while. she says i pushed her away lil by lil by being insecure and tht i was making her want to cheat on me and she didnt want to cheat so she called for the break. shes not gettin invoked wit anyone els3 im sure she says she just needs time. wat do you guys think about this will she come back. i told her i was sorry and tht i would change da way i act. i also told her how hurt i was. wat do you think i should do to get her back.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ceoofdaroc4 said:
hey me and my girl have been goin out for five months things were all good she was obsessed with me when we first started goin out but things were good most of the time we argued but nothing serious. i was a bit over protective of her and acted insecure. so last week she said we needed a break and she needed time to think about wether or not she wants a relationship so we can be friends for a while. she says i pushed her away lil by lil by being insecure and tht i was making her want to cheat on me and she didnt want to cheat so she called for the break. shes not gettin invoked wit anyone els3 im sure she says she just needs time. wat do you guys think about this will she come back. i told her i was sorry and tht i would change da way i act. i also told her how hurt i was. wat do you think i should do to get her back.
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The degree of honesty this woman showed is RARE. I am impressed.

You are done. No questions asked. Leave FAST. Keep some respect while you have it.

Been there, done that. The more you try to keep her, the more she will have proof of what she thinks of you is correct. Do not give that to her. Leave NOW.

For some fixing, go read DJ bible.
 
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my ex did the same thing but she was a ho somewhat so i had every right. but still pulled the same lines on me so i turned it on her behavior and said fine do what you gotta do im not going to stick around anymore. i did get back together with her but obivioulsy it ended later on. just leave her alone for a little bit dont even say a word for like a week or so. IF YOU WANT HER BACK DONT CALL HER OR TALK TO HER FOR A LITTLE BIT. shes the prize to you it should be the other way. if she doesnt giv eyou what you want then leave youll save a lot of time and energy. do u want to be with a girl that makes you feel insecure anyways? you should feel secure and happy.
 
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It's over for now with this girl. Just leave her alone, that's all you can do. It sucks, but that's the way it is.

Oh yeah, don't be so naive to think she's not getting involved with someone else. 100% chance she is. Just face it, move on, and get yourself another girl.
 
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well she still txts me alot i dnt txt her give her time to miss me then we tlk i usually bring up the relationship alot. she says she just wants time i mean were still goin to prom together in two weeks you think something could be rekindled there? and what about this still talking thing like she still contacts me and stuff then we have conversations and then i dont txt her and da cycle keeps repeatin wat should i do and do you think prom can rekindle something
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am in the same situation bro! My ex broke up with me, i'm commited to prom with her still. I gave her her space. Stopped answering her calls, I never iniatiated a conversation with her. Finally i was like we need to hang out as friends to see what it's like to be friends. So i did. I started acting like not interested in her and she kept trying to show me that she's attracted. Then she tells me to come over again soon. I am winning her back but i gotta be smart as i look for other girls at the same time.
 
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i was making her want to cheat on me and she didnt want to cheat so she called for the break. shes not gettin invoked wit anyone els3 im sure she says she just needs time
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Translated out of ********, her attraction for you has declined and she wants some new ****. You're done. Eject.
 
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