"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She wants to still hookup...?

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Okay, in my other posts I posted field reports of spring break in the bahamas...

Now I had a GF throughout that whole time (that didn't go). She told me to do W/E I wanted and that she wouldn't get mad at me. Now having said that she was allowed to get with other people and she did. We went on a don't ask don't tell basis.

Now I got back, and obvioulsy my town was talking about everything and she found out about everything I did. I ended up having sex with one chick..

Now I told her that (knowing full well taht she already knew)...and she said she wasn't mad, that she said to have a good time and i did...Now I thought everythign was cool now...

Little did I know....last wednesday we were talking online and she said that thinking about me fvcking some other girl gets her madder and madder every time she thinks about it and that its driving her away from me. So in the end of it, she decided she needed a break from me to get her feelings in order. Now last night she talked to my friend about it and apparently she decided that she was going to talk to me and my friend said she wants to hookup with me but not have any strings attached....now in my head (of my penis haha) i'm thinking good... pretty much a fvck buddy (only she doesn't put out) but in my other head ;) and in my heart I'm thinking...wtf i was going out with this girl for about 5 months i don't know if i can handle her hooking up with me and then getting with other people. Now we didn't have this talk yet....shes saving it for tommorow (or so my friend says) so how do i respond to this? also keep in mind that she IS going to prom with me so I can't just make her feel like an ass.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NYC Dude

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Well you can't expect too much more of a serious relationship from a girl who knows you ****ed another girl while you were in this relationship. She's going to want to "get even" with you and hook up with some other guy whether you feel she will or not, so if I was in your position I'd take what she's giving (a **** buddy) and not worry about it too much.
 
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yea but we were on a "break" for my vacation and she said to have fun and do whatever the FVCK i wanted...you still think she'll feel that way?
 
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When girls say that it's BS. Regardless of what she said, if it was going to be a serious relationship, you don't have "breaks." A **** buddy is a good deal in this situation, so I'd take it if I were you.
 
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Toddc, you have been in these for long time and should know that women always don't mean what they. Other thing who would feel ok if somebody fckd somebody while those couples were going out. NYC dude and Vegas Guy are right about **** buddies.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Think physical and not emotional when fvcking your ex. Get her emotionally attached to you and the fvcking will last longer. Just don't get her caught up in your head. Stay busy finding other chicks.
 
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REFUSE her offer. If your GF knows about this, you can only imagine what kind of horrid schemes are behind it. If you DO stoop for it, know that your reputation will be destroyed. REFUSE the offer. If you still want to do it, do a full 7-hour gambit on her before you have sex. Assures you that you actually have a connection instead of JUST a F-Buddy.

-DAmian
 
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