"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She wants to sleep in my bed on the first date

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ok so I met this chick 2 weeks ago..

at the mall she is a 8hb she is black , I am latino... any how

we have been calling and texting each other , finally I set up something since I have been busy with school and work ... I set up a casual starbucks date , I planned it for the morning 10am since I have class in the after noon , and she suggested going back to my place and sleep after we got done drinking our starbucks
so I said to her sure why not ...
... I repeat this is our first date ...

what's going on here?

I am just trying to game this girl for sex...I am not looking for a relationship...

I need some advice oh great wise ones... should I take advantage of this opportunity to hit it ?

this kinda reminds me of the episodes of blind date where, the guy would play his cards right and in the end go inside the chicks apartment , and kick out the camera guy lol...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a woman offers to go back to your place, to your bedroom (this is quite rare, BTW), she is not expecting to get much sleep. Assuming she is not being a tease (and it doesn't sound like it), she has practically thrown herself at you. It would be downright rude of you to turn down her unspoken offer.

In case I didn't make it clear enough, take her back to your place and sex her good.
 
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abcd_z said:
When a woman offers to go back to your place, to your bedroom (this is quite rare, BTW), she is not expecting to get much sleep. Assuming she is not being a tease (and it doesn't sound like it), she has practically thrown herself at you. It would be downright rude of you to turn down her unspoken offer.

In case I didn't make it clear enough, take her back to your place and sex her good.
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Quoted for truth! Sounds like you can't lose in this situation, man. Have fun.
 
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Be deadly serious and tell her as you walk into your place that you don't put out on a first date. Make her halfway wonder if you are serious. Then accidentally break your rule just for her.
 
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Let me get this straight, so this chick is putting herself out there and you still don't know how to go about it? Cmon bro you dont need advice from no great ones, even people like ItsOnNow would recognize that they're bout to get laid....
Please don't screw it up by being this idiotic when shes lying in your bed naked.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is this guy serious?

DUDE......2 words...JHOLIDAY HER!!!
 
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update 08/04/08

omg ... she put out

it was amazing ....

I was just freaking out usually I don't get any until at least 3rd or 4th date

wow that girl was amazing in the sack ...

thanks guys for the advice ...

wow omg , this one was for the record books :)
 
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Yeah, I would recognize it of course, but I can't say it has happened much for me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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decadentdestruction said:
update 08/04/08

omg ... she put out

it was amazing ....

I was just freaking out usually I don't get any until at least 3rd or 4th date

wow that girl was amazing in the sack ...

thanks guys for the advice ...

wow omg , this one was for the record books :)
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dood u got to give us more than that. What did she say what did she do??? cmon:)

I know i am nosy but u got to give me more than that.
 
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well , I picked her up from her pad... we the nite before talking about each others pajama's , she said she was going to wear some booty shorts...

I was like wear whatever makes you comfy ... after I picked her up we stopped at the starbucks , she said lets do drive thru , so I can sleep in your bed .starbucks messed up my order, we ended up getting free drinks ...

I took her back to my place,

she jumped on my bed , and I was like omg ! she asked me to cuddle , with her I said nah ... I told her , I'll cuddle with you but I need to get somethin out of it lol... she said ok...

I went hugged her she then gave me a kiss on the cheek...

I told her ... so thats it ? she said ok one more , the next one she planted it straight in my mouth , then I said , you can better than that , I slipped her the tongue . we had a mean making out session, from making out , I told her I was going to spank her for not answering my phone calls lol... spanking turned into take my booty shorts off, and I told her if she liked guys going downtown lol... from there she said I want to taste you , she gave me an amazing beejay.... after that she said I want your **** inside me I said hell yeah why the hell not, and we lasted for a good hour.

this girl is mix half cuban / black (african decent )

she was mostly giving me the signals I just went along and did some neg hits, and used all the great advice I learned on here.

I think what helped me the most was always keeping her waiting ... but not for too long. I asked her what made me different from all the other guys , and she said your just different ... and you have goals , and a guy with goals
turns me on.

I don't call my self lucky for having this happen to me , its just a matter of playing your cards right , its like finding out your favorite beer is on sale , and buying a six pack , I set my goal , I was like you know what I have always wanted to game a black chick , I approached this girl, no fear, boom 2 freaking weeks later
, and now I get a chance to share this with my fellow dj's .

this site does work

and it gets even better everyday ,

so lets help each other out
some more with advice

and everyone go do some approaches !
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tight, Congradz Dued....

Gooooood!!!!!!!!!
 
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so you DID! J Holiday Her!!..hahah thats a word i use here freely..but good to see you doing it right..
 
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