"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She Wants To Play Stripper...

NewMan

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I've role played this kinda stuff before - but never with a transaction of colde cash.

I think, had you parted with singles - would not have been a big deal - next time be prepared. take $20 or $30 and convert to singles to play the "game". If she complains about the $'s then you have your answer. My guess is - she just enjoys the game.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tazman

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I'm not saying you should get rid of her or anything, but don't get too smitten, the fact remains that you just bought "yourself" a polo shirt. There's no reason to feel bad about your feelings after she took the money......she still took the money. I also think it's bad taste to tell someone how much you spent on a gift, it makes the whole thing seem like a transaction (even if that's essentially what it is).

Enjoy it for what it is, just pay attention to the wallet.

Also, women are quite adept at finding "deals" when it comes to clothing, unless she showed you the reciept, there's no telling how much she really spent.
 
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