She wants to go alone on an study trip/vacation.

[Yoruba]

I have an new girlfriend that just finished her Master in Arts as an musician,we have an great connection and feeling for each other,she's very spontanious and open to other people(other men artists) and that gives me sometimes an feeling of jealousy as she's so open and stuff when talking to other men,lastly she was talking to an friend(Artist) on the phone for an meeting at her home to see some DVD of her exam and stuff ....and i told her that i'm not feeling okey about this artist friend coming over etc...she just told me "he's just an friend that i like very much" how the H*ll do i have to interpret this behaviour of hers??
Do i have to just trust her on this and don't do the lack of confidence behaviour thing like being jealous or....and telling what i feel?

Secondly she's planning to go Cuba for an study trip of 3 months without me...which i don't feel good about,because she's so open...

Any tips how to act with this kind of behaviour of an Girl that i like very much.

Regards,

Yoruba.

 

[newbie81]

It's simple:

If she cheats she's no good, dump her.
If she doesn't cheat, this is one reason to keep her.


There's nothing you can do to prevent somebody to cheat on you.

And stop being jealous, she sees other men, why don't you see other women?

peace.

 

[JC9]

How long have you been going out with your girlfriend?

If she has been like this the entire time you've been going out, it's just her nature; if it started recently it should be a red flag.

Read some of the posts in the tips section on signs of disinterest, and look for those instead of signs of interest from her. Those are easier to spot.

Read the Anti-Dump machine section of the DJ Bible, it gives a helpful perspective on being more aware of signs of disinterest.

 

[Yoruba]

Originally posted by JC9
How long have you been going out with your girlfriend?

If she has been like this the entire time you've been going out, it's just her nature; if it started recently it should be a red flag.

Read some of the posts in the tips section on signs of disinterest, and look for those instead of signs of interest from her. Those are easier to spot.

Read the Anti-Dump machine section of the DJ Bible, it gives a helpful perspective on being more aware of signs of disinterest.

She was always this way,i know her like 2 years now.
And she keep telling me how much she loves me etc.....and that she want to have kids with me etc...all good signs i think.

Regards,

Yoruba.

 

[MightyMate]

Say You dont want her to go because she belongs to You.

 

[Yoruba]

Originally posted by MightyMate
Say You dont want her to go because she belongs to You.

This sounds like a bit too authorative dude...she already belongs to me,but she has her own will also you know "European Woman" emancipation and ****....but going to Cuba alone for 3 months with all the "Sharks" over there is like sending her to the open sea with hungry Alpha Sharks ;-)) I know this because i'm from the Caribbean region...i won't let an bunny pass me by like this...
Can i tell her on an more subtle way or maybe i have to go with her ?

Greetz,

Yoruba.