AmericanClass
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First thread here, so bear with me if ya care to respond.
Been dating this cutie for about a month now, and its pretty serious. I spend a good amount of time with her at her apartment, sleeping with her like 5 nights out of the week. She says she loves me and I say I love her. It's all happy and good and whatnot.. don't think we've even gotten into a fight yet.
Cept there is one thing that bothers me, is that she wants to be, One of the Guys. It doesn't really bother me that she has a lot of guy friends and little girlfriends, but the way she acts when she's around either my group of guys or her friends.
She likes to try drinking anyone under the table, acting real tough like, making a lot more cracks at me when the guys do it too, stuff like a tom boy. This doesn't really bother me anymore, cept Im used to the girl being a girl thing. I like my women to show a least a proportion of the affection they do when we're around in private. Not saying she hasn't, but when she tells me all the emotional things in private, like she loves me a lot and is really happy around me, it seems like she's putting on a different show and tune in public. Sometimes I don't even think she acknowledges us as a relationship around some people.
My question, or topic, is: should I just let this slide, and take what I can get, or is there a way I can mold her, or something I can do to get her be at least partially the way she treats me in private?
This ain't much of an issue, but I'd thought I'd throw it out there for discussion. Thanks killers.
Been dating this cutie for about a month now, and its pretty serious. I spend a good amount of time with her at her apartment, sleeping with her like 5 nights out of the week. She says she loves me and I say I love her. It's all happy and good and whatnot.. don't think we've even gotten into a fight yet.
Cept there is one thing that bothers me, is that she wants to be, One of the Guys. It doesn't really bother me that she has a lot of guy friends and little girlfriends, but the way she acts when she's around either my group of guys or her friends.
She likes to try drinking anyone under the table, acting real tough like, making a lot more cracks at me when the guys do it too, stuff like a tom boy. This doesn't really bother me anymore, cept Im used to the girl being a girl thing. I like my women to show a least a proportion of the affection they do when we're around in private. Not saying she hasn't, but when she tells me all the emotional things in private, like she loves me a lot and is really happy around me, it seems like she's putting on a different show and tune in public. Sometimes I don't even think she acknowledges us as a relationship around some people.
My question, or topic, is: should I just let this slide, and take what I can get, or is there a way I can mold her, or something I can do to get her be at least partially the way she treats me in private?
This ain't much of an issue, but I'd thought I'd throw it out there for discussion. Thanks killers.