"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She Wants to Be One of the Guys

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First thread here, so bear with me if ya care to respond.

Been dating this cutie for about a month now, and its pretty serious. I spend a good amount of time with her at her apartment, sleeping with her like 5 nights out of the week. She says she loves me and I say I love her. It's all happy and good and whatnot.. don't think we've even gotten into a fight yet.

Cept there is one thing that bothers me, is that she wants to be, One of the Guys. It doesn't really bother me that she has a lot of guy friends and little girlfriends, but the way she acts when she's around either my group of guys or her friends.

She likes to try drinking anyone under the table, acting real tough like, making a lot more cracks at me when the guys do it too, stuff like a tom boy. This doesn't really bother me anymore, cept Im used to the girl being a girl thing. I like my women to show a least a proportion of the affection they do when we're around in private. Not saying she hasn't, but when she tells me all the emotional things in private, like she loves me a lot and is really happy around me, it seems like she's putting on a different show and tune in public. Sometimes I don't even think she acknowledges us as a relationship around some people.

My question, or topic, is: should I just let this slide, and take what I can get, or is there a way I can mold her, or something I can do to get her be at least partially the way she treats me in private?

This ain't much of an issue, but I'd thought I'd throw it out there for discussion. Thanks killers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay first off, I am not harsh, and not trying to be, but heres a reply for ya son,

30 Days, and 30 Nights = I love you.
BULL ****!!!

Kid, no, no, dont say you love her she has not proven herself to you yet for you to love her. Love is trust, trust only builds up over time, seeing and studying and examining where a person heart lays and conviction lays. If she says it, so what. Say, thanks, I love me too. Okay....

The thing is kid, you are moving too fast. Let s not talk about her for a minute, let s look at you, shall we.

You meet her, you fvck her, the result, everyday or just about 5 days a week you see her, sleeping and spending the night over her house, and all that, kid............go get a life, okay, she aint going nowhere trust me.

Get the hell away from her. She calls and says I want you to come spend some time with me, say no, I got to do this or that. Not trying to make you seem fake or anything, but she does not deserve all this attention you are giving her.

Okay....you got me. Now, lets look at your *****.

She sees you, fvcks you, always wants to be around you= high interest level. Which is a good thing. But this is what is happening, each day, that passes, she is getting more and more USED to seeing you, soon my friend, BOREDOM sneaks in like a pimple on prom night, and BAM, one day she does not call you. That day turns to a week.

When you finally talk to her, she says,

You know I love you, and would never do anything to hurt you, but I just need some space or some time to myself, or lets see other people.

You came to the right place my friend. Go out in life and find something that you like to do, and do it. Limit your time what that *****, only 30 days, HELLLLLLL NOOOOOO that aint love my friend. You dont even KNOW her yet, trust me. If you have further questions, reply to me buddy and I will assist you.
 

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She likes to try drinking anyone under the table

that always leads to TROUBLE

the drunk, cheating and don't remember being raped kind of trouble

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acting real tough like, making a lot more cracks at me when the guys do it too, stuff like a tom boy

like a man ?

paging PRL .... PRL we need customer assistance in isle 4

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This doesn't really bother me anymore, cept Im used to the girl being a girl thing

it has already affected you to where you ACCEPT IT

you need to get your self respect and dignity back

especially her making fun of you with the guys

women should act like women

it is society that perverted women into these tom boy type wh0res

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it seems like she's putting on a different show and tune in public

damn dude that must hurt you :(

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Sometimes I don't even think she acknowledges us as a relationship around some people

ok thats even worse. you need to straighten her out.

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should I just let this slide, and take what I can get

NO. you will day by day turn into a WIMP.

it will take a long time to reverse the damage.

deal with it now.

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is there a way I can mold her, or something I can do to get her be at least partially the way she treats me in private

straighten her out

take charge

make sure she knows you are the man


are you having sex with her ?

this is part of the molding process

you should be ON TOP

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This ain't much of an issue, but I'd thought I'd throw it out there for discussion

yeah it is an issue. it is making you unhappy. get you head wrapped around the idea that

THIS $HIT AIN'T RIGHT

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Thanks killers

WESTSIDE DJ THUGZ 4 L1FE



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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Okay first off, I am not harsh, and not trying to be, but heres a reply for ya son,

30 Days, and 30 Nights = I love you.
BULL ****!!!

Kid, no, no, dont say you love her she has not proven herself to you yet for you to love her. Love is trust, trust only builds up over time, seeing and studying and examining where a person heart lays and conviction lays. If she says it, so what. Say, thanks, I love me too. Okay....

The thing is kid, you are moving too fast. Let s not talk about her for a minute, let s look at you, shall we.

You meet her, you fvck her, the result, everyday or just about 5 days a week you see her, sleeping and spending the night over her house, and all that, kid............go get a life, okay, she aint going nowhere trust me.

Get the hell away from her. She calls and says I want you to come spend some time with me, say no, I got to do this or that. Not trying to make you seem fake or anything, but she does not deserve all this attention you are giving her.

Okay....you got me. Now, lets look at your *****.

She sees you, fvcks you, always wants to be around you= high interest level. Which is a good thing. But this is what is happening, each day, that passes, she is getting more and more USED to seeing you, soon my friend, BOREDOM sneaks in like a pimple on prom night, and BAM, one day she does not call you. That day turns to a week.

When you finally talk to her, she says,

You know I love you, and would never do anything to hurt you, but I just need some space or some time to myself, or lets see other people.

You came to the right place my friend. Go out in life and find something that you like to do, and do it. Limit your time what that *****, only 30 days, HELLLLLLL NOOOOOO that aint love my friend. You dont even KNOW her yet, trust me. If you have further questions, reply to me buddy and I will assist you.
Think you nailed this on on the head, b. Made myself too available, despite really enjoying being wit her. Props man.
 

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too available ?

i guess thats easier than standing up for yourself

growing a spine

being a MAN

She likes to try drinking anyone under the table, acting real tough like

bro make yourself less available eh ?

so when she is so drunk she can't stand and f*cks one of the guys

WUSSUP !!!

it seems like she's putting on a different show and tune in public. Sometimes I don't even think she acknowledges us as a relationship around some people

there is a problem in your relationship

yeah go be an OSTRICH and stick your head in the sand

make yourself less available for her to WALK ALL OVER YOU

and DISRESPECT YOU

My question, or topic, is: should I just let this slide, and take what I can get, or is there a way I can mold her, or something I can do to get her be at least partially the way she treats me in private?

your question was what ?

your question was what ?

thats right back on track YOU have an ISSUE with her DISRESPECTING YOU

but write it all off as spend less time will help

maybe cause you see her less she can walk over you less

you are still gunna feel like $hit


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Props to Pvssy-Eater and Lost-In-Translation - you don't really need any more than what has already been said buuutttt....

You are pvssy-whipped!!!!!!!!!!!!

Never listen to a hors word - especially especially especially when a hor tells you she loves you after being with you only a few week!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HORS SAY THEY LOVE EVERYBODY!!!!!! Hors don't know how to love!!!

And why do you love hors??? I'm dumbfounded??:confused:

You are just the next pimp in line! Do you think you are the first dude she said this to?? Get real!

A classic hor line is to say she loves you right away as if you are someone special then lo and behold you keep your guard down and you start trusting the hor and all the while she is jocking somebody else!!!!

Don't be a fool and keep your dignity and respect and put this hor in check!!! DJ P=E, DJ L.I.T. told you what you had to do!!

Wake Up - The Matrix Has You!!

Follow the Puerto Rican rabbit!!


Lost, Aisle 4 has been cleaned up - where is the next mess to clean up?
 
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Originally posted by AmericanClass
Think you nailed this on on the head, b. Made myself too available,
"Too available?" You damn near live in her vagina! cave!

Make room for the baby to grow!:rolleyes:

Oh yeah, welcome to SoSuave!
 

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Lost, Aisle 4 has been cleaned up - where is the next mess to clean up?

a single mum with 5 kids to 5 different men called the manager

apparently one of her kids vomited a chocolate he stole off the shelf in isle 2

apparently she hasn't been feeding her kids as she needed the money to buy crack

can you please clean up the mess :)

try not to call her a wh0re more than 12 times while you mop up the mess

we have been getting complaints from women that you keep calling them by their first name

in public you should always adress them as Miss Wh0re

http://www.hoslap.net

oh and read my sig but you can't use it cause its copyright :p
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Lost, did you say that when you slapped the ho you registered 369 mph? I only got up to 349 mph! :( - but then I only tried 5 times.

Don't tell me you got 369 mph on your first try?

I guess you had more practice than me considering that you are "THe Australian Pimp"!

You must have strong wrists!
 

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my best is 384mph

i am using a Microsoft IntelliMouse Optical

i have my mouse settings set to PIMP

i was slapping her slow for awhile just to hear all her funny sayings

i lost it when she said she was just like Julia Roberts in pretty woman

i have actually had a girlfriend say that to me when we discussed women and prostitution

and why women love the movie : Pretty Woman

i reckon P_S is the owner of that website


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I haven't been here in about a year, and not really here for 2, but it's the same thing. What is up with dudes thinking they are in love after a month?!
 

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my best is 412mph :]

Lost plz keep making spaces between the sentences it makes for easy reads and good laughs keep it up man
 

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I read the first two sentences and without reading any further, all I am going to say is, things are going down hill man.
 
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