She wants to be "handled", with assertiveness and force

[Pandora]

I think that its a great sign that she wants to be handled. It shows submissiveness to masculine energy. Even the most domineering woman i have met loves to be pushed around in the bedroom. Make sure u pull the hair, and talk sh*t to her. Ya know, the basic stuff.

 

[Masculinity]

She tells me that she wants to be handled, with assertiveness and force. She describes scenarios where she is being ordered to stay quiet as I hold her down and expose her, then make her ***. She clearly likes to be lead. Wants to be taken with assertiveness. I have been very dominant physically, positioning her, moving her physically, lifting her, telling her what I want her to do during the act. It seems that this is still not the extent of what she wants.
My question is, How can i learn more about this. Is it a form of Domination/ submission? Where can I learn more about the Psychology of it so that I do it right. Having her explain it to me would take away the excitement for her, I'm supposed to just "get it", and I don't, at least not with the details that will make it successful for me. The word "Handle /Handling", seems to have a meaning that I need explained. Where can I go for this info? Thank you.

I used to date a girl who was into the same type of stuff. She wanted to be told what to do and would ask for it directly. She wanted me to spank her, choke her, slam her with thrusts, and just treat her like a complete slvt. That woman really changed the way I think about sex; however, you need to exercise caution because almost all of these acts can be taken out of context an used against you if the chick is crazy or wants to get revenge on you. This concern is especially applicable if you are spinning plates.

Aside from her, I am generally aggressive sexually and man handle them a lot, all with consent. That means if she says, stop just stop. A lot of them really enjoy it in my experience, as most guys are not courageous enough to take such risks. If she wants it hard and nasty, give it to her. Ask her what fantasies she has and share yours. Fulfill her fantasies and you may get yours fulfilled too! Hell, you can even pull a threesome if done correctly. Keep us updated. I want to know what happens with this chick.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

@ubercat
If she is into the sub thing then next time you are at her place, find something (anything) to find fault with then tell her she needs to be punished for not looking after you properly. Put her over your knee like a little girl, pull her panties down and spank her hard.
Find out if she has a daddy thing going on. Try throwing a few "c'mere baby girl, be nice to daddy" and see what the reaction is.
My 2 cents.