She wants my attention TWICE, I give it to her, she rejects me TWICE? What?!

[hop On hop Off]

I drove my housemates to a trip few weeks ago, one of the girls showed interest to me, I got interested in her. She reject invite to second trip.

I resent her for doing that. I went cold shoulder. If I see her in living room, I'd pretend nobody is in the room. She seemed very sad, she told the landlord she'll move out this month.

I think I hurt her bad, so I gave her some attention. I sat down across from her last Wed during breakfast to break the ice. She dropped everything to talk to me. She was thrilled.

NC between Wed and Sunday. On Sunday, I asked housemates to join for church while everyone chilling in the living room. She said yes. Then she said no because nobody else is going. Then she said yes, because a housemate decided to go. But that dude pulled out last min, so it's me and her. She tell me enjoyed the experience, but vowed to scold at the flaking housemate. (anti-slvt defense?)

Today, I knocked on her door to come to church again.
Me, "hey, we have Sunday service today, I told the landlord you are coming with me, I told the pastor I'm taking you" (taking her anti-slvt defense off)
Her, "When? What time is it now, I'm sleeping"
Me, "Leaving in 15 min, hurry, dress up, we need to get going"
Her, "NOW? I am still a bit sleepy"
Me, "Well, get dressed then, I'll wait for you"
Her, "O, I think have a report to do today, next time? but thanks."

Wait, I got rejected?! I ego is hurt right now. I tell myself "she's a HB6.5, she can't just reject me like that, wth!"

My pastor give me a pair of tickets to see a show with her. He told us about it last week at church. Now I have to bring her.

I came home, knocked on her door,
Me: "hey, I have the tickets, the pastor gave it to me today"
Her: "the pastor remembered?"
Me: "yeah, so when are you free? I need take you, so I can tell him"
Her: "Next week?"
Me: "I have to give it back on Sunday"
Her: "o, let's do Saturday"

How should I take it from here? I think I'm giving her too much attention. I want to go NC, but I have to finish this business. Where do I stand against her right now?

 

[nismo-4]

This attention wh0re is gonna reject you a third time! She ain't interested in you, unless you are her orbiter. She was hurt because she was losing an orbiter, not dik. Stay ghost on this girl and find someone who has interest in you.

She wants your attention be because her male personal trainer told her go to hell. Detach yourself now, delete her from all platforms if you need to.

Case closed.

 

[hop On hop Off]

She didn't want to come to church because of:

1. She was actually sleeping, don't wanna get up?
2. She could just get up if she wanted to go. She is putting me off?

I was pretty pissed when she said "no thanks, next time." I told myself "this chick is out."

Now I'm given a pair of tickets from the pastor to see the show with her. I must go.

Sure, I can also use this opportunity to escalate. But the timing is a bit off. I look AFC asking her out again after rejection in the morning. This is a taboo in the NC world.

So, how should I proceeded on that?

 

[hop On hop Off]

Mauser96,
Thanks, I guess. I am the same person. I don't know what happened.

 

[Trunks]

Tell her you don't pressure anyone but she should knwo you're starting to get bored since you haven't become one.

 

[Trunks]

If she's 6.5, I can almost guarantee you you'll lose interest after you pump her anyway

 

[Trunks]

Or invite her to an ultra expensive restaurant and foot her the bill.