"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She wants me to go to her sis's wedding afters!

silverwex

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Hey all,

Theres this HB8.5. Im not dating her but when we see eachother out we usually end up kissing/frenching/snogging (u get the picture!). Shes quite a cool girl but very dry at the same time (e.g. shes not into messing around etc...).

Anyway i get a message off her today asking me to go to her sisters wedding afters tomorrow night (friday). But if i go ill prob be going on my own - i barely know this girl and dont have a clue about her family so what should i do? Stay or go?

Ill be going out on the piss tomorrow night anyway, if i do go to this thing ill only be there a while (about an hour?).

Thanks guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sailorgirl

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It is hard to answer you....

Due to the language problem it is hard to say...... but no matter what language go if you want the girl don't if you don't simple as that.
 

silverwex

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What language prob?

U talking about 'going on the piss'? That means getting drunk with my friends.

Frenching/Snogging = Kissing

Im Irish by the way so im fluent in english. :D
 

squirrels

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If you want to go, then GO. If not, then DON'T.

It really is that simple. Don't let your fear of losing this girl control your life. If you're not ready to meet/deal with her family or you have something better to do, then don't go. I wouldn't if I wasn't friends with her sister, unless I really liked events like that. It's really none of my business.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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