"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She wants me sexually, but her logic says NO

teomax

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She is married for few years, having child and not really satisfied with her husband (sexually, emotionally), she was ready for occasional sex relationship with me, but at some point she started to withdraw and is slowly trying to LJBFed me, as she fears of breaking her marriage and i am not definately interested in breaking their marriage as well.
What should i do in this case?
I was thinking about me LBJFeding her first and slowly trying to advance our relationship, in order to decrease her fears.
Any advice?
(sorry for my engrish)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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teomax said:
She is married for few years, having child and not really satisfied with her husband (sexually, emotionally), she was ready for occasional sex relationship with me, but at some point she started to withdraw and is slowly trying to LJBFed me, as she fears of breaking her marriage and i am not definately interested in breaking their marriage as well.
What should i do in this case?
I was thinking about me LBJFeding her first and slowly trying to advance our relationship, in order to decrease her fears.
Any advice?
(sorry for my engrish)

See the part in bold there? That's not logic. That's the 'gina tingle going away possibly because of something you may or may not have done. You have to ask yourself, what were you saying to her at right before this time? How were you acting? Where you listening to her problems, or where you trying to fvck her? Gaming a married chic is hella easy so I think you made a mistake there.

See the second part in bold? I think that's what happened in the first part. Your mentality is already one of a "relationship" she has one of those, she doesn't want two. She wants a dominate fufilling sexual fling. And then if it excites and entices her she will want more and more until she manufactures circumstances to leave her husband. I've seen in a few times. Of course, this is all conjecture and opinion so I may be completely wrong, you have to judge for yourself.

Before the morality crew jumps on you for trying to have a "relationship" (haha) with a married woman, I'll just say that any woman who cheats on her husband isn't really worth keeping, you should have the swagger of a lothario, pump and dump for the win. Good luck.
 

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teomax said:
I was thinking about me LBJFeding her first and slowly trying to advance our relationship, in order to decrease her fears.
Any advice?
(sorry for my engrish)
Her "fear's" are not so much the problem. She lacks desire for an affair. IF she really wanted one with you she would dive right in.
She has changed her mind about you.
Women in her position do NOT seek another "relationship" in the sense that you think of one, they seek only to fill the romance gaps in her marriage..and you are the filler guy.. At best you would be her parttime lover who provided the missing elements.
MY bet is that you have already provided her with a lot of ego inflation and she is satisfied knowing that another man wants her and she still "has it".
You have served your purpose - move on and invest your time and energy elsewhere.

Take it from me. If there are children and husband makes a decent income, she will never leave.
 

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He's a new poster, so I'll forgive him for using the words "HER LOGIC" in the same sentence and as back-to-back words.

If she wanted you sexually, she would have done the deed by now without much thought on her part. Listen to what Warrior and jophil are saying...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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terran2k

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you're really putting her pus$y over your self respect. Don't let this one chic **** your ass around. you gunna let some married chic push/pull your ass? you better straighten her ass out.

although i know you will anyway, find some stupid reason to rationalize the idea to keep messing with her.
 
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