She wants marriage: need help

[The_Flamingo]

After getting rejected mutliple times I decied that I was doing things wrong, I found the site and used it to the fullest. Month later I found a girl and I lost my viginity. Things went well that night until she asked about marriage... I was in the moment and said whatever.

Next day I woke to find her number in my phone and a text message to meet again. Got another text message saying she loves me, she has fallen for me, that I wasn't like all the other guys that ran away when she mentioned marriage.

I thought... "marriage....?"

I told her we just met and marriage was to early for that. She came over that night and we talked. She mentioned love but I told her that its great and all but I really don't want marriage, she then cried and said she made a big mistake. I felt bad so I said I'd be her boyfiend, her mood changed and she was ecstatic.... we slept together.

Got another text message the next day saying how happy she was we where a couple and she was coming over after work to sleep together. I mean I like that she's frisky but.. geez.. I feel liked I'm trekking in unsafe waters here. She seems like a nice person, I'm very unsure at the moment what exactly is happeneing though. I think I might have not done things right...

 

[user name]

I was once in a relationship with a psychotic woman that I couldn't get out of.

When I tried to end it she wouldn't stop blowing up my phone with calls and texts and then came the suicide threats.

In the end I just stopped trying to ditch her and told her what she wanted to hear.

That was 3 years ago. She still calls and texts. I never tell her I'm seeing other people but I never agree to meet up with her.

She is also a very 'nice' girl. Ironically she 'heals' people for a living. Alternative medicine.

 

[Mr Wright]

Get out of that relationship ASAP. The longer it goes on the worse it will get for you, she'll be trying to move in and the second you reject her in anyway...thats when the tears and the suicide threats will come.

Dont stick your d!ck in crazy! Let this be a lesson to you before you're married to the nutter

 

[denverfan110]

Run.

For the fvcking hills.

 

[denverfan110]

You know how you've been reading all this advice on this site about being aloof and making it seem like you're judging her whether you want her to be your partner?

Well Women do that do, on a way larger scale than Men do. If she wants marriage from 1 fvck (and apparently has asked the same question to other guys......), you have to ask yourself: why is she willing to settle so quickly?

She's clearly not of high value. From the looks of it she's also a psycho. Run.

 

[PlayHer Man]

One thing that continues to amaze be about men is how often they forget they have 100% FREE WILL. You can do whatever the f*ck you want 24/7 and no one can do anything about it. Yet men allow themselves to be in these FEAR-based mental/emotional prisons with women. :crazy:

Marriage is moronic because a woman's "love" is highly conditional.. thus totally worthless. A woman will only love you if you do: 1, 2, 3. If you decide to do: 4, 5, 6 instead.. suddenly she doesn't love you anymore. There is no loyalty.

If women are unpredictable and you never know what they will do.. why would you put them in a position of power over you? Seems stupid doesn't it?

Anyway.. just keep f*cking this girl if you enjoy it. Her emotions are her problem. If you think she might be a crazy b!tch who will slash your tires, cut off your d!ck, or stalk you.. then I would break it off as soon as possible.

 

[thatfeel]

Um...this broad sounds completely nuts. She put her # in your phone and is already asking for marriage? Even if you desperately wanted to get married, I wouldn't even marry someone who was as desperate as her.

 

[Cremasta]

You screw her once and she wants to marry you?! Fvcking good life skills! You should post stuff in the tips section

The only chink in your armor is this

I felt bad so I said I'd be her boyfiend,

As soon as you stop letting yourself get emotionally blackmailed, you will be THE MAN!

 

[VikingKing]

This happend to me with some chinese girl i met on chatroulette. She was offering to send me money, wanted to come meet me when she graduated, even sent me pics of her snatch.

She kept pushing me to be her boyfriend. I basically told her that is not going to happen. I have no idea what she wanted. I told her she would have to live near me so we can actually get to know each other, and even then what if we dont like each other (I really ment what if I cant stand her).

Crazy girl was buying skype credits to call me. Got all obessed. I finally told her no more and just ignored her calls.

I still get emails once in a while.

 

[skinnyguy]

You screw her once and she wants to marry you?! Fvcking good life skills! You should post stuff in the tips section

The only chink in your armor is thisAs soon as you stop letting yourself get emotionally blackmailed, you will be THE MAN!

LOL. This has got to be the best post of the day.

 

[VikingKing]

Never trust any one. Especially people like this. You should probably try to end this asap, before it gets crazy.

 

[VladPatton]

This is NOT normal and will end in major drama. RUN!

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[MC_Snipes]

I just broke it off with a girl I was dating for a year that wanted to marry me pretty much after the first date(found out from her roommate) but she did start to hint at me 3 months in about it. The hardest part was that she was from a filthy rich family and pretty much spoiled the living **** out me but eventually after being ***** whipped for a year I finally came to my senses and broke it off. Wanted her back after 2 weeks but shes moved on and now Im single and missing all the nice sex and free food . Honestly once you start having doubts then you should end it. Work on yourself and go after quality girls that have their own life and things going on for them. Never change for anyone but yourself. I am learning this the hard way.

 

[Trump]

I told her we just met and marriage was to early for that. She came over that night and we talked. She mentioned love but I told her that its great and all but I really don't want marriage, she then cried and said she made a big mistake. I felt bad so I said I'd be her boyfiend, her mood changed and she was ecstatic.... we slept together.

She cries and you quickly say you would be her boyfriend? What would you have said if she cried and screamed? Give her your car?

Come on bro, site makes you realize what you did wrong with women, lose your virginity, and then you are that weak after you have sex with a girl? Gots to be stranger than that.

 

[JoeMarron]

I just broke it off with a girl I was dating for a year that wanted to marry me pretty much after the first date(found out from her roommate) but she did start to hint at me 3 months in about it. The hardest part was that she was from a filthy rich family and pretty much spoiled the living **** out me but eventually after being ***** whipped for a year I finally came to my senses and broke it off. Wanted her back after 2 weeks but shes moved on and now Im single and missing all the nice sex and free food . Honestly once you start having doubts then you should end it. Work on yourself and go after quality girls that have their own life and things going on for them. Never change for anyone but yourself. I am learning this the hard way.

Da fk did you do that for? I would've milked her for all she's worth. You guys can throw sugar mommas away if you want to but I'm gonna take advantage of them. As long as you dont think she's gonna snap and cut your balls off if you try to break up with her there's no need to get rid of these women