"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She Want Stop Callin Me

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well, i went to this beta covention w/ my best friend and some girls(no were not geeks). we didnt plan on doin nething excpet what we had to but any ways, we decided to see who could get the most girl's numbers. well i won...:up:


...unifortunitly. there were 4 girls sittin at a table, my friend tried but got rejected (haha) so i go in and try. well i got their numbers and some how they got mine. then i got @ least 50 calls from one girl... the ugliest. we were in the mall (and so were they) and they wanted to meet but i said no. they got all pissed and asked why and i said i was in victoria's secret buyin somethin for my girl friend. :flowers: well, i got SOO many calls i ended up tellin her it was all a joke and a game between me and my friend. she hasn't called since.i figured there is a leason in this, dont give a girl ur phone number.
what should i have done (if any thing) instead of telling her it was a joke (future "reference")?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Patrick124

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b!tch was crazy. i would have yelled at her by call #5 in one day.
and nah, giving your # out works if the girl is actually interested. but int he case of 4 girls, i woulda just gotten their #s. 1on1 you'll never have the b!tch call you 50 times, cause if its 1on1 she shouldnt be ugly and have *obviously* no self esteem
 

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haha

just shows you what AFC behaviour is. She must be really desperate
 
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