MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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Sex is enaugh. What else You want.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
SHE used ME for sex??? WTF
- Thread starter Immaculate
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Immaculate mate, get the words 'out of my league' out of your vocabulary.
Those words are the things which create the league in the first place.
Be comfortable in your own skin.
Don't seek approval.
View yourself as the ultimate catch
Get your game together in all ways.
Then if Jennifer Anderston happens to be about at the time go and give her a chance to get to know you.
You've got to BELIEVE it before you'll see it. Confidence is the most attractive thing to women and if you believe she's not in your league then guess what - she isn't.
Anyway I'm really glad you've found your ability to laugh at the whole thing. Now that's good. Because you're now officially a better man than you were when you first posted this thread. When you are so detatched from the outcome and your previous mistakes that you find your previous mistakes hillarious you've made the psychological shift that will really improve your game.
Learn from your mistakes, laugh at them - learning is fun, and know deep down that you've GAINED from the experience. If you do these things you're on the path.
Those words are the things which create the league in the first place.
Be comfortable in your own skin.
Don't seek approval.
View yourself as the ultimate catch
Get your game together in all ways.
Then if Jennifer Anderston happens to be about at the time go and give her a chance to get to know you.
You've got to BELIEVE it before you'll see it. Confidence is the most attractive thing to women and if you believe she's not in your league then guess what - she isn't.
Anyway I'm really glad you've found your ability to laugh at the whole thing. Now that's good. Because you're now officially a better man than you were when you first posted this thread. When you are so detatched from the outcome and your previous mistakes that you find your previous mistakes hillarious you've made the psychological shift that will really improve your game.
Learn from your mistakes, laugh at them - learning is fun, and know deep down that you've GAINED from the experience. If you do these things you're on the path.
disciple
Senior Don Juan
Just enjoy the ride and remember not to fall in love too easily. Don't be like alot of women who confuse sex and love. I've had lots of sex that didn't mean anything more than just sex. If the woman wants more than that, let her be the one to give some indication. Otherwise, just enjoy the ride as long as it lasts and when its over, find a new ride. Ha ha!!!!
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Haaaaaaaaaaaa
Immaculate..
Don't you live in Northern VA?
You know how bad these hookers can be? I guarantee she has a serious BF but he's crushin other chicks.
The same thing happened to me off Match. I've met a few like that. They seemed to come and go at the time. A few stayed for a minute.
Don't sweat it. Because if you were dycking her down good, then she'll be back. Count on it.
If not let it go. You barely knew her...
- AA
Immaculate..
Don't you live in Northern VA?
You know how bad these hookers can be? I guarantee she has a serious BF but he's crushin other chicks.
The same thing happened to me off Match. I've met a few like that. They seemed to come and go at the time. A few stayed for a minute.
Don't sweat it. Because if you were dycking her down good, then she'll be back. Count on it.
If not let it go. You barely knew her...
- AA
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.