"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she turned the tables on me, now what

crazysheep4

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so i was flirting with this girl at my work tonight, and i think everything is going good, so then she says shes gonna go cuz her mom needs to pick her up, so were walking outside and i ask her for her phone number, i say

"hey, you should give me your phone number so we can hang out sometime..."

and this is where it goes wrong, she pulls out her phone and goes "whats your number?" and me not even thinking gave it to her when i should have just tried to get hers instead, oops

so do you think maybe im overreacting and it doesn't matter that she got my # instead of the other way around or should i jus ask for it again tomorrow when i see her (we work together)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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quest

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the ball is in her court.
if shes interested she'll call/txt u.
if shes not, she won't

pretty easy way to find out if she's interested.
 

xiola

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i have no problem with giving my # to a girl.


b
 

00Kevin

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yes you are over reacting. You are a DJ. You have plenty of other girls that want you. If she calls you, who knows, you might not even have time to talk. You might just have to get her number and call her when you are not busy.
 
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