returningchamp
Don Juan
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Cute 8 with LSE (has a lot of men hitting on her all the time and always says things like, "i must look easy because i know they aren't hitting on me for my looks.")
I've been having sex with this woman for 4 years. Periods where she'd date someone, and we wouldn't see each other for 6 months or so, then get back together for that fwb sex for a few months.
NEVER has she been over my house and not had sex.
So about 3 weeks ago we make plans to hang out.
She text's me: "I just want to tell you we can't have sex tonight."
^ I've heard this before from her, and never has she followed through with it.
I guess you can see where this is going: She comes over; we drink, talk, laugh, kiss, etc. I give her a massage... Both of us get naked...
Kissing, i feel her - she's wet.
At this point I'm ready, but i have to pee really bad. I get up and go, and I believe in that mintue or so - she was able to lower her tempature a lot.
When i get back, she says she has to go. I ignore and start to kiss her again. She says, "bad things happen when we do this" and pushed me away.... I ignore and go in again... And she turns her head so that i can't kiss her lips and gives me this look that said, "there's nothing you can do to change my mind." Then she repeats, "We're not having sex, and I have to go".
I was pissed because this was her tooling me imo. We're both naked; im hard; she's wet; i know she wants it... So i just say, "Go! Get out then!" pointing to the door. Then i tell her she's not moving fast enough.
She hurries and gets all her clothes, throws on half of it, leaves the other half behind...
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I figured there must have been another guy in the picture who she was seeing that night and didn't want to have sex with me and him.
That's what my gut tells me, and that's what i believe.
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So i go no contact and go back to the other women in my life and forget her (i actually had to deal with a woman i was fvcking getting an abortion in this time period and really didn't want to even see any other women).
About a week goes by and she texts me. Just saying "how are you doing?" etc.
I don't respond. This continues....
With each non-response - i get even more texts.
It's going on 2 weeks now since she tried to recontact me and she's sent me about 40 texts messages.
She sent me 3 yeaturday:
"How are you?"
"You know, no matter what you think of me - im always going to worry about you."
(wtf? lol)
and finally:
"I don't understand. I do 999 good things to you, and 1 bad thing to you, and you treat me like this?"
(at least she understands that what she did was bad.)
---
Anyway... She seems to be putting a lot of effort to get my attention again. I'm considering contacting her again. But after so many weeks of ignoring her text messages - how exactly should i do this?
I was thinking about something like: "If you want to talk to me again - rent a room. Get a couple bottle of wine. Take the battery out of your cell phone for the night. And i'll be there. Otherwise - have a good life."
If she buys it :rockon:
If she doesn't - i guess i'll have her out of my cell phone.
thoughts?
I've been having sex with this woman for 4 years. Periods where she'd date someone, and we wouldn't see each other for 6 months or so, then get back together for that fwb sex for a few months.
NEVER has she been over my house and not had sex.
So about 3 weeks ago we make plans to hang out.
She text's me: "I just want to tell you we can't have sex tonight."
^ I've heard this before from her, and never has she followed through with it.
I guess you can see where this is going: She comes over; we drink, talk, laugh, kiss, etc. I give her a massage... Both of us get naked...
Kissing, i feel her - she's wet.
At this point I'm ready, but i have to pee really bad. I get up and go, and I believe in that mintue or so - she was able to lower her tempature a lot.
When i get back, she says she has to go. I ignore and start to kiss her again. She says, "bad things happen when we do this" and pushed me away.... I ignore and go in again... And she turns her head so that i can't kiss her lips and gives me this look that said, "there's nothing you can do to change my mind." Then she repeats, "We're not having sex, and I have to go".
I was pissed because this was her tooling me imo. We're both naked; im hard; she's wet; i know she wants it... So i just say, "Go! Get out then!" pointing to the door. Then i tell her she's not moving fast enough.
She hurries and gets all her clothes, throws on half of it, leaves the other half behind...
---
I figured there must have been another guy in the picture who she was seeing that night and didn't want to have sex with me and him.
That's what my gut tells me, and that's what i believe.
---
So i go no contact and go back to the other women in my life and forget her (i actually had to deal with a woman i was fvcking getting an abortion in this time period and really didn't want to even see any other women).
About a week goes by and she texts me. Just saying "how are you doing?" etc.
I don't respond. This continues....
With each non-response - i get even more texts.
It's going on 2 weeks now since she tried to recontact me and she's sent me about 40 texts messages.
She sent me 3 yeaturday:
"How are you?"
"You know, no matter what you think of me - im always going to worry about you."
(wtf? lol)
and finally:
"I don't understand. I do 999 good things to you, and 1 bad thing to you, and you treat me like this?"
(at least she understands that what she did was bad.)
---
Anyway... She seems to be putting a lot of effort to get my attention again. I'm considering contacting her again. But after so many weeks of ignoring her text messages - how exactly should i do this?
I was thinking about something like: "If you want to talk to me again - rent a room. Get a couple bottle of wine. Take the battery out of your cell phone for the night. And i'll be there. Otherwise - have a good life."
If she buys it :rockon:
If she doesn't - i guess i'll have her out of my cell phone.
thoughts?
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