"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She totally went cold after first date. Wat

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It's completely odd. During the date everything was perfect, we went to an arcade, played basketball and watched a movie. Then she went cold for the next few days. Since she was completely ignoring me and talked normal with other guys I started flirting with other girls. There was even a school activity where I chose another girl in class and not her, reason being the teacher said "Choose someone whom you'd benefit working with on this project."

Then she became even colder than before, going as far as not acknowledging my existence and flirting with other guys in front of me. I'm planning to go NC and flirt with other girls. Just a few hours ago, I even got rid of the "remembrance" she gave me after the date, hehe (apparently that was the first date in her life).

So am I doing it right? What did I do wrong? Who's the one at fault?
I need someone's insight at this.

Edit: because of what she has done, I flirted with other girls and walked home with another.

P.S. I'm 15 and she's 15 too.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She's 15, so there could be a myriad reasons for what happened, one could only guess and even if you knew exactly why, it would bring nothing to you.

Main point is, as far as you know, you've made no mistakes, so the only thing you need to learn from this is to let go. Completely. Not play games, going NC hoping she will suddenly change her mind. Forget her and pursue others.

Oddly enough, something along those lines happened to me not long ago, and the girl was almost twice the age of yours. I took the time for diagnosis and it is - fvcked in the head and immature.
 

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Your princess is in another castle. Just remain ghost. For your own sake.

Case closed.
 

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hudpes said:
She's 15, so there could be a myriad reasons for what happened, one could only guess and even if you knew exactly why, it would bring nothing to you.

Main point is, as far as you know, you've made no mistakes, so the only thing you need to learn from this is to let go. Completely. Not play games, going NC hoping she will suddenly change her mind. Forget her and pursue others.

Oddly enough, something along those lines happened to me not long ago, and the girl was almost twice the age of yours. I took the time for diagnosis and it is - fvcked in the head and immature.
nismo-4 said:
Your princess is in another castle. Just remain ghost. For your own sake.

Case closed.
Thanks for the advice!
The case is closed and all, and I guess I don't care anymore, she told a friend of hers, who is also my friend, that we're awkward together? Like what? We were best friends before. The only thing I did was talk normally, mixed with a little flirting.

When my friend told me that I was like "The fvck?".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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