She told me something, and I haven't talked to her since. Wrong move?

[Eph]

I was having a conversation with a plate this past weekend, and she told me the name of the guy she was into. Once she did, I deleted her number and stopped talking to her. My reasoning being that if it wasn't me that she was into (which it wasn't), then nothing was likely to happen between us, so I had no reason to continue talking to her. Now, I'm thinking I may have acted too quickly. Maybe I'm just getting inside my own head too much, or maybe I'm just trying to rationalize things, but it doesn't seem too unlikely that I could be someone she likes, in addition to this other guy. But the thought of playing second fiddle to him, especially considering I know him, is really what drove me away. Thoughts?

 

[expos]

But the thought of playing second fiddle to him, especially considering I know him, is really what drove me away. Thoughts?

You did the right thing, sort of. By deleting her number and not talking to her, you are teaching yourself restraint and self-respect. I would have done the same thing - as a woman who truly loves you wouldn't bring up other guys to you.

But also, this was a sh!t test by her to get you to CHASE her. You could have ignored what she said and continue to make plans with her on your own time - then ditch her if she continues to sh!t test and act poorly.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

My last relationship was full of sh1t tests like that and I was willing to "endure" them because the pua's told me so...

Needless to say I have post traumatic stress from that b1tch from the gradual erosion of self respect...

You did the right thing. Fvck that b1tch. NEXT!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I suppose this shows she respects you, she was up front & honest. I'd have to say that's pretty rare. She could have easily not told you & just gone NC? I think you did the right thing as well. It is what it is, she's into someone else.

 

[Yewki]

You were either in the friendzone or it was a **** test. I think you reacted too strongly but could have been worse.

I think responding jokingly then cutting back attention would have been better, in case it was in fact a **** test.

Her: "I'm really into such and such"
You: "ya I'd hit it"
Her: "haha, blah blah blah"

Then go slent.

 

[Eph]

You were either in the friendzone or it was a **** test. I think you reacted too strongly but could have been worse.

I think responding jokingly then cutting back attention would have been better, in case it was in fact a **** test.

Her: "I'm really into such and such"
You: "ya I'd hit it"
Her: "haha, blah blah blah"

Then go slent.

I wouldn't doubt it. I waited way too long to pounce. A lot of times I wondered if my actions were making my intentions clear. However, with that said, she did (does) have some sort of feelings for me, whether or not romantic (doubt it). Things I said to her often carried a lot of weight with her, so it's probably as someone said, and she just highly respected me.

 

[EveryPostHere]

Don't contact. No contact rule is number 1, next to red pill. Any time a female mentions, looks at, or even watches something with another man they aren't interested in you. You've got to be the center of their world. You're the man, and you're the alpha.

 

[VladPatton]

Your gut, instinctive, impulsive action was a natural decision, so own it. Rip off the rear view mirror and keep going forward. A girl that likes you or is hot on you will NOT mention another dude and fück up the present situation.

You were correct in your deletion of her number. Onward and forward.