"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She Told Me She Has Intimacy Issues

Asmodeus

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Intimacy issues?
This is a load of BS... Women just have to lay there like a starfish on the ocean floor while you pound on, of all the women I have fvcked I have done 98% of the actual work in sex.
Trouble getting "wet" and having enough vaginal lubrication.. Then just use some lube! Heck I carry a small thing of lube with me, it helps make sex better.
She has pain when you have vaginal sex (does happen in rare cases). Then she can still suck a d!ck, Typically lube helps that too. Cervix issues or she has muscle spasms during deep penetration, just do more shallow penetrations and you can still get off.
Did she actually explain what the problem was or did she just give you the general excuse of "intimacy issues"?
Seriously, sounds like she is just ****blocking you and controlling you.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She could be just telling you the truth & is just DTF with no strings. I've met a few crazys that have admitted to me right away that they are just bat sh*t crazy. They weren't kidding ethier, good times.

What the hell is this early stages/courting? 2-3 dates?

Her actions over words, less fvcks given. Sex this b up already she's horny.

As a side note: Asmo, 98% for real? That's terrible man!
 

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So because this chick doesn't like to be overly affectionate and says she likes her space she's a nut job?

Here's the thing this girl has been so chill. Maybe even a little too chill but chill nonetheless. Doesn't blow me up. Doesn't ask me a million and one questions. Isn't needy. So I'm missing the part where she' a nut job.
Girls have issues with intimacy
Guys have issues with relationships

Both are bull**** excuses, and the truth is "I am not convinced by you, and I'm certainly not in love".

As to what you should do? As always when you're not sure: ignore and keep going then the truth will come out for you to see.
 

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What a woman says and what she does are usually two completely different things.

Ever heard the phrase they utter before they have sex in the stall at a club's restroom. "Omg...I've never done this before" right before she starts gobbling up your **** like a pro.
 

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Ever heard the phrase they utter before they have sex in the stall at a club's restroom. "Omg...I've never done this before" right before she starts gobbling up your **** like a pro.
Do we know the same girl!? :D
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have found that when a woman actually verbalizes "intimacy issues", she has severe psychological issues. A woman who is "normal" (normal for women) generally won't say that, even if she's not interested. It's a self-deprecating thing for a woman to say. Women generally won't tell you they are abnormal.
 

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she wouldnt say something like that to brad pitt
 

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When was her last relationship? I think this is a fair question to ask her since she openly told you about intimacy issues. I've experienced that women who like you and see you as a potential partner are more open in telling you. It's up to you to see if she is worth the effort.

This is a 'pick up' forum after all, where quick dismissal of a prospect is encouraged.

Women with 'intimacy issues' have been emotionally fvcked in the in past and/or have given their pvssy away for free [because of the emotional fvckery.] You need to figure out some details without asking her directly.
 
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