"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She told me I looked a little Stressed after I told her my routines

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She told me I looked a little Distressed after I told her my routines

Hi
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I would like to know what should I have told her when she told me I looked distressed. It was our first date and I started to tell her routines, C and S smile, Style rings, and cold reading. Anyway, I didnt never feel distressed but CAF. But when she told me I looked distressed I felt like she had read my mind, although she smiled all of the time with me and we have a good time, but I could not make too much kino, she is a HB 8. She behaviored like a queen, smile no much, drink no much, most all the time friendly but not giving me space to advance.
I need your advices buddies.
Giovanni
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For dates, just be C+F and have a good convo with some kino. No need for rutines
 

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Women are excellent at reading guys. They can notice things about yourself you didn't even notice.

I'm not sure why you are running routines on a date though. Isn't that stuff mostly for approaches?
 

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Routines

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Thanks for your advices. Well I used routines cause it was our first date, I did it for Kino, Style rings, palmistry and others to touch her, but after this I could not get kino too much, she gave me little space to advance with kino. I would like to know what is the best way to initiate Kino or what could I have done in this date .
I would like to hear your advices, buddies.
Giovanni
 

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There are many many articles on Kino in the Hall of Fame. Look for ones that sound like they are about kino or touching.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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