She tells me she just wants to find the right guy and i'm right here in front of her

[montybrown]

So this chick that I'm talking to always sheds her **** to me about how she just wants to find the right guy. and I'm about to just tell her "Look I'm right here in front of her" I think I've been friendzoned, I don't really like her like want to be in a relationship with her, but I just want to fvck her. She already is planning on being my Roommate and moving in with me, but I don't know if it's a smart idea on my part. Last time I hung out with her she got really jealous when I hooked up with another chick and stuff and she kept looking at me. Now it just seems like she just wants to be a friend who tells me all her drama problems. I was on the phone with her for an hour before she finally told me she was gonna let me go cause she's gonna watch Family Guy.

I'm not sure how to handle this chick cause she wants to move in with me and she sheds to me all her problems and all I want to do is fvck her. I feel like an emotional tampon and it pisses me off. I don't want to be mean to her because that's what she cries to me about saying "Why is everyone an ******* to me"

 

[splinterkb]

She'll never want to put her friendship with you on the line to try a relationship. Don't waste your time man.

 

[KontrollerX]

What the fvck are you doing on the phone with this chick for an hour if you don't want to be an emotional tamp0n?

Knock that sh!t off right this instant soldier!

Also you don't have to be an assh0le about cutting your time talking with her on the phone either. Just make up an excuse or smooth way to transition yourself out of talking with her more than 5 minutes on it. She'll eventually get the message that if she wants more intimacy from you in that area she better start trying another tactic because this talking your ear off bullsh!t is getting tired.

Furthermore when you've been alone with her have you ever tried to kino her, ever tried any escalation thing at all?

I ask because maybe she hasn't friendzoned you in reality but perhaps has gotten the vibe that you've friendzoned her so she's just making the best of it.

She likes your company but you aren't doing anything to indicate you want her in anyway so what else is she supposed to do except think you are her friend??

Apologies if this isn't the full situation but my post was made on the information you gave us to go on with your post.

 

[betterthandead]

I think it's us guys fault sometimes for not picking up the cues fast or working our ways fast. Girls are very logical when it comes to relationships (illogical at everything else of course.) I'm not saying you should be aggressive but only do so when it is appropriate and you think she's worth the energy.

 

[Obsidian]

wow, you are a complete fool, montybrown. This chick is disrespecting you to your face, yet you want to become her roommate solely so you can have sex with her. Why don't you rethink everything you just posted, and then develop a more sensible plan of action (like, maybe, get the hell away from her and read the book of Pook during the time that you would otherwise be wasting on the phone).

 

[JackPrescott]

So this chick that I'm talking to always sheds her **** to me about how she just wants to find the right guy. and I'm about to just tell her "Look I'm right here in front of her" I think I've been friendzoned, I don't really like her like want to be in a relationship with her, but I just want to fvck her. She already is planning on being my Roommate and moving in with me, but I don't know if it's a smart idea on my part. Last time I hung out with her she got really jealous when I hooked up with another chick and stuff and she kept looking at me. Now it just seems like she just wants to be a friend who tells me all her drama problems. I was on the phone with her for an hour before she finally told me she was gonna let me go cause she's gonna watch Family Guy.

I'm not sure how to handle this chick cause she wants to move in with me and she sheds to me all her problems and all I want to do is fvck her. I feel like an emotional tampon and it pisses me off. I don't want to be mean to her because that's what she cries to me about saying "Why is everyone an ******* to me"

You are her emotional tampon. Congrats. :cheer:

 

[tick37]

Why haven't you told her what you want? Are you scared of losing her or something? You have a small world if that's the case.

 

[DonGorgon]

You are not the right guy ... if you were she would be fing you. simple. women have too many choices so they dont have to chose.

 

[JackPrescott]

You are not the right guy ... if you were she would be fing you. simple. women have too many choices so they dont have to chose.

This is part of the problem. Male to Female Ratio.

 

[DonGorgon]

This is part of the problem. Male to Female Ratio.

There is a serious male over population problem now especially in densley populated urban city areas where many men go for money making business opportunities.. In those areas you end up with many men and shady women move to the area to capitalize on the desperation of all these lonely men.. Perfect example Atlanta GA which is full of strip clubs , escorts and gold diggers etc...

 

[DJDamage]

You are not the right guy for her that is why she doesn't see you.

The right guy for her will not sit ideal aside while she manipulates him in becoming her emotional tampon and becoming like her girlfriend.

You missed your boat and now you are stuck deep in the friendzone. Don't move in with this chick or it will be hell on earth for you.

Its time to cut this one loose and hook up with girls that actually like you and want to polish your nob with their open mouths instead of just talking.

 

[Nelford]

So this chick that I'm talking to always sheds her **** to me about how she just wants to find the right guy. and I'm about to just tell her "Look I'm right here in front of her" I think I've been friendzoned, I don't really like her like want to be in a relationship with her, but I just want to fvck her. She already is planning on being my Roommate and moving in with me, but I don't know if it's a smart idea on my part. Last time I hung out with her she got really jealous when I hooked up with another chick and stuff and she kept looking at me. Now it just seems like she just wants to be a friend who tells me all her drama problems. I was on the phone with her for an hour before she finally told me she was gonna let me go cause she's gonna watch Family Guy.

I'm not sure how to handle this chick cause she wants to move in with me and she sheds to me all her problems and all I want to do is fvck her. I feel like an emotional tampon and it pisses me off. I don't want to be mean to her because that's what she cries to me about saying "Why is everyone an ******* to me"

Well stop doing what you are doing if you want to F$$k her. Don't listen to her problems, she has girlfriends for that. Trust me bro, I been through this before and if I want to smash a girl off, I don't listen to her damn problems. My mission is the smash, soI stick to the script. :box:

 

[Gangster Of Love]

She only gets jealouse when you are with another chick because it poses a thread to loosing her "girlfriend", you.

No chick wants to loose her emotional tampon or her good male friend or a gay friend, because then they gotta go find a new one. They are hard to find.

Don't move in with her. You will soon be asking us how to get into a relationship with this one, as you already care to much to "just sleep with her", and if you really just want to bang her, then you are too desperate acting like she's the only one with a puss.

 

[Jitterbug]

Don't know how guys can talk on the phone for more than 5 mins. My testicles would violently protest if I ever did that.

Do not let this chick move in as your room mate. You wouldn't have a chance in hell to sleep with her and she would sabotage your potential lays.

 

[Existential]

She tells me she just wants to find the right guy and I'm right here in front of her.

I'm not sure how to handle this chick cause she wants to move in with me and she sheds to me all her problems and all I want to do is fvck her.

WOW, I have no idea why she hasn't gone for you yet. You are no doubt subcommunicating the second quote above while simultaneously being her emotional tampon. Can we say incongruence?

Not to mention, a girl looking for "Mr. Right" isn't going to be jumping all over a guy who "just wants to **** her."

 

[Python]

Just don't talk to her. leave it. If she wants to screw you she'll chase imo. if not move on.

 

[synthiotics]

MontyBrown,

I have been there a million times. She is a dumb ***** and you are just as bad for enabling her behavior. Move on, plain and simple. She is an emotional vampire sucking away your life's blood. Be honest with her, don't let her move in and let her just cry. I'm sure it won't be hard for her to find another guy to dump her problems on.