"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She tells me I am sexy when tipsy: wut!

PapiChulo

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She tells me I am sexy when tipsy. Is it a test or she wants to ride me? Or am I just stupid? She threw in a hint about asking her out - but she is a known flake, and probably wants to find out if I would indeed ask her out. (To which I didn't and just teased her). To be honest, she is a hb8-daddy's girl, I used to hate her, but now seem to be liking what she has to offer. Ironic isn't it?
Women are indeed infatuated with the men that could not care less about them.

I am taking my time now making her work for it while I have fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PapiChulo

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lame...................I am tired of answering my own question, might as well not ask next time.
 

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just handle it as a compliment "thank you that's very nice of you to say"

or

"i am not some guy you can have sex with on the first night..well, at least you have to buy me a drink first"
 
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