"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She suddenly changed her mind...

Dustin

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Alright, I haven't been her in a while but I am really stuck now. Here's what's going on.

Well this girl like used to like me and all this stuff so eventualy I invited her over to hang out and stuff and we hung out and she didn't acknowledge anything. She was like really into me she had liked me for a year she told me... Well know for no obvious reason she doesn't really like me and my friends were talking to her once on MSN and I was right beside them and they asked her about me and she put a puking smiley. Now I don't know what is going on. Did she convince herself not to like me or something like that. Please help me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am still wondering why she put that lol, she was pretty much buging me all the time n stuff now she is saying that. Kinda messed but so are most of her friends. one of my buds did some stuff with one of her friends and now they all hate him and she let him do it. they are kinda weird but were I'm from majority of the people are.
 
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