"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She stopped texting me

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This is a real story and I’m looking for advices.

I met a girl thru online gaming, 1 and a half year ago. She was from my city, but was in a relationship with a guy. Anyways, we met up and ended up having sex. The thing is, we did that for the next 18 months.

She used to text me all the time, I never had to initiate anything.

1 month ago, she stopped texting.Completely ghosting me out of nowhere, not replying.I went full beta mode and spammed her to see wtf was going on. She finally told me she needed some time alone and that she was sorry for behaving this way.

1 week ago, she broke up with her boyfriend. I asked her about it and she explained how it happened and I have asked her if she met someone else because she was being distant and quiet lately. She told me she has a crush on a guy, but no sex happened yet and she insisted in telling me she wasn’t looking for a relationship for now.

We go to the same college. I told her if you wanna sleep over before semester ends it would be nice. She replied "we’ll look into it
" , I asked her if she would let me know when she is free, she told me of course, but it’d be complicated next week because she has exams. I went NC after that. It’s been a week since that.

The last time she initiated texting was almost 2 months ago. She never texted me since if I didn’t text her first. Before that, she was always texting first for 18 months straight.

Seems like she still wants to keep me as a side piece in case things go wrong with the other guy. Or maybe she will never contact me again.

It sucks, because we were very compatible sexually, I made her do all the nastiest pr0n things I could think of. She enjoyed it every second.

My question is, will she text me ever again if I keep NC? Since the last 2 months she seemed not into me anymore. I know she’s a ***** but the secks was so good. thoughts plz
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Everytime someone start with "a real story" you know it fake :p.

If it was a real story.... The girl is into a another guy.

Move on, go NC, date another woman it will heal the process.

Don't chase her.... It will make her run away.

Girls are easy to understand. You do the reverse of logical ;)
 

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this has to be a troll post fr lolol

poon king is that u o;
 

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Everytime someone start with "a real story" you know it fake :p.

If it was a real story.... The girl is into a another guy.

Move on, go NC, date another woman it will heal the process.

Don't chase her.... It will make her run away.

Girls are easy to understand. You do the reverse of logical ;)
OMFG. Do the reverse of the logical. But its true.
 

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She stopped texting you... Get your panties out of a bunch and move on.

I swear the answers to posts nowadays are so simple. You don't even have to read the post to know the answer. It's all in the title.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1 month ago, she stopped texting.Completely ghosting me out of nowhere, not replying.I went full beta mode and spammed her to see wtf was going on. She finally told me she needed some time alone and that she was sorry for behaving this way.
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1 week ago, she broke up with her boyfriend.
All those dots between two paragraphs are things you didn't write. That means you were communicating with her all this time, that's what you have to do to know she broke up with her boyfriend. That in turn means she's fcking another guy, which is not you.


My question is, will she text me ever again if I keep NC? Since the last 2 months she seemed not into me anymore.
Quick answer is no. But if you put yourself into the role of her emotional tampon and beta orbiter she might. Romantically and sexually you are done with this girl.


You focus on your looks, proper diet, gym, working out, growing muscle, dressing nicely, good grades. Raise up your SMV. Get other women, spin plates. If she ever returns knocking back, don't let her in.
 
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