"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she stood me up,now I'm going "no contact" on her

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I've been texting this girl I met some weeks back and I've been suave about it(bursting her balls,disqualifying her and showing her some love occasionally).I was supposed to see her last weekend for a casual get together but she stood me up...I called her her and she dint pick up,sent her a text later telling her I was around but it went unanswered.maybe she was tryna get back to me for frustrating her all along,but I don't give a ****...I haven't sent her any text or called her since then...I plan on goin "no contact",till she apologises and gives me a good reason..fellow dj's share your opinion.tnx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dunno. It's just some broad who gave you her number, and flaked out on you.

I'd barely even call that being "stood up". It just seems like the normal thing when it comes to meeting women. Sorry if I sound callous, but it's not like you were dating or anything. Just a few text here and there.

My point is.....other than no contact, what can you do? Seems like she put YOU on no contact.
 
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So....
She stood you up.
Ignored your call
Ignored your text message
And you think YOURE the one going no contact?

Jesus Christ words ****ing fail me.

She isn't going to call and apologise, she has no interest what so ever. Get a pair of balls, man the **** up and find a girl who isn't so ignorant.

The same thing has happened to me in the past and I just never gave her a second thought.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wayyyyy to much effort was put into this. you shouldnt even care about her. You are thinking about no contacting a chick with whom is really nothing more than a phone number? you should not be this invested bro
 
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We are all familiar with the lines, "Your fired!" "You can't fire me because I already quit!!"

Here it is the reverse:

"I quit!" [going NC]

"You can't quit because I already fired you"

Or even more like,

Him: I'd dumping you and I ain't even going to let you know about it.

Her: I like cats.
 
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