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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She says "you're fresh"

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What does it mean when a girl says "you are fresh"? I went to this girls house and whenever I escalate, she says "you are fresh". I asked her what it ment but she won't tell me. So I told her to seize from saying it since I dont understand what the term meant.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fresh can be taken a few different ways.

My dad used to say before I went out on a date "Don't get fresh with the women" meaning don't try to do anything sexual - and I was always like "RIGHTTTT I won't" and then I'd go bang my g/f.

My dad was an AFC but luckily my parents divorced so I didn't get the full effect.
 

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It's an antique expression. Very retro of the chick to be using it now.

Well, I'm a fan of antique expressions... wiki is pretty modern, so it's definition is lame:

fresh (comparative fresher, superlative freshest)
5. Being rude.
No one liked his fresh comments.

That's ok, but a little extreme in connotation. I was always regarded "fresh" as "forwardly frisky". So, in DJ terms, it's a good thing to hear because you are pushing your boundaries and she's responding with a very classic "Oh my!" *flutter eyelashes, blushes, fans herself with fan* It's like an old-school ASD saying. You can keep pushing, so long as it's tasteful. Now, when she starts calling you a cad or a masher, then you better back off a bit. :)

Here are some more appropriate definitions for you:

8. Not fatigued; brisk; vigorous
10. Looking youthful or healthy
14. (informal) forward or presumptuous <-- that's what you are getting
 

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I sometimes say "Don't be fresh!" for sh-ts and giggles, even though I don't know what it means.
 

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"forwardly frisky" in a sexual way.

Like Benny Hill was "fresh". LOL.

The term in Spanish is Fresco and it is commonly used in the Spanish language (at least in the Caribbean).
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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So, does it imply a negative or positive connotation?
 

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amoka said:
So, does it imply a negative or positive connotation?
Depends on her tone. It appears she was playful with you.
 

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Latinoman said:
Depends on her tone. It appears she was playful with you.
Yeah, but she said it several times.... good or :rock: bad?
 

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Back in my MOM'S day (when they invented the wheel) saying a guy was "fresh" meant he was sexually flirty. This is an old, old saying. Rarely used now a day.

NOW, the word "fresh" means cool and hip. As stated above.

I think the girl meant it as you were being sexually flirty.
 

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WaterTiger said:
Back in my MOM'S day (when they invented the wheel) saying a guy was "fresh" meant he was sexually flirty. This is an old, old saying. Rarely used now a day.

NOW, the word "fresh" means cool and hip. As stated above.

I think the girl meant it as you were being sexually flirty.
This is definately what she meant. I'm sure of it. At some point when I asked her what the term meant, she told me to go ask my mother. Damn, I guess that's a good thing then. I need a ****y + funny line to give her next time she says this.... haha. Now that I know the term is a positive connotation, I'll do it again. and again. that's right.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A girl told me that I had incredibly long fingers. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? OMGWTF!!! MY EGO IS BASED ON WHAT THE GIRL SAYS!!!!!
 

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Like Vulpine said. Yeah, good. :)
 
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