she says your weird....

[Bjj_playa]

hanging out with a girl she said how im weird or kinda scary cuz i was so quiet at first..i said oh thats nice and she says well hey im still here ....i duno that confused me, it was sort of an insult but she still wants to hang out and see eachother again.

also something else i learned...being new at this still, i was getting sort of paranoid and asked her friend if she said anythin about us hanging out, her reply was "wow you guys both keep asking me that" so never assume you know how the other person feels, i thought she lost interest but it turns out she's still if not more interested than i am. hmm

 

[bob88]

By "weird" she meant "I like you".
And, "well hey, I'm still here" sounds like she's waiting for you to make your move dude.

Go for it.

Oh yeah, and about that you being paranoid part, try not to ask other girls' friends anything...if they haven't said anything to them and you ask something like that then she'll have the upper hand.

 

[ryannath]

Cool, so a girl called me weird one time. She and her bf made a sex video and he showed it to me and another girl, and I asked her about her making one and she started blusing and getting flustered, and just said, "you're weird." I took that as she thought I was weird, but bob88 says that "weird" meant she liked me.

 

[PleasureKing]

when they tell me im weird, i tell them they are more weird. we get into a fun argument and end up making out the next day. its all about FEELINGS. these are just concepts that are showing how she feels about you.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

yea when you first get a girl, every guy is like that, we all feel insecure, you just have to build it up and make sure you dont become clingy.
Some girls like quiet guys at the start because that maybe their type.
You maybe shy, but try to open up to her later on cause thats important in a relationship.
Good luck.

 

[noodle]

When they say "your wierd"...it depends what their tone of voice is. if they are jokingly saying that then it means they like you.
if they are serious and all then it means that they think you are weird. simple as that.