"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She says, "Thanks"

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Wow, i just realized how immature this girl is when it comes to anything sexual...

I had a little finger play with her today and brought her to orgasm and she's like amazed and exhausted and says to me, "Thanks"

What the fvck?!

I told her, "Don't say thanks!"

She's said, "Okay" and then held me tightly.. and had a little silent moment with her breathing hard etc.

She's the one who never iniatiates sex and never makes the move. It's always me... and sometimes she denies me. Makes me feel like a chump. She'll be like, "We're not having sex" or straight up be like, "No".

How can I fix her problem? She told me one day, "I'm not no street *****, you can find one on the streets."

How can I get a girlfriend of 5 months to be more open in the bedroom, her make more moves, and increase our sexual activity?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You poor sap. I'm sure i speak for many here in expressing our condolences to such a terrible situation. What could be worse? A girl who claims she's not a hooker.

I'm just giving you a bad time ..guys will always be the one to intiate sex (or usually so). It's no biggie, and if she says no, just warm her up by getting her horny ..touching her in that sensitive G spot area usually does the trick. Don't even ask, just get after it.
 
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Dude... she said Thanks, so what... I fail to see the issue

All you've got to do is make sex enjoyable to her... I've dated girls who would have sex like once a month prior, before I convert them into twice a day freaks, lol... if you give her a good thing, she's gonna want to experience that every time she sees you...
 
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Judging from your previous posts about this girl, you have a bad case of one-itis. Thats the main issue here, because its going to come thru in your actions towards her. A woman is not attracted to a man who needs her for his own sense of worth, and that most certainly describes your situation.

Its a painful lesson to learn, but you have the opportunity to learn it earlier than most people. Date several girls... lay off this girl, it will provide you with the perspective you need.


Your girlfriend isnt going to become more sexual open when you are acting the AFC so don't bother reposting the same question:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102571
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100514
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101800
 
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