"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She says she's shy to go to homecoming...

jericg

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I finally asked this girl to homecoming. She said yes at first, but after school she told me that she's too shy and awkward, probably because of all the grinding that happens. I don't talk to her much. Should I still try to talk to her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let her come and talk to you at this point, at least she rejected you beforehand rather than flaking.

Meanwhile talk to some other girl(s).
 

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Shy my ass!

Judge nismo rules she's not interested. She wouldn't be shy to go to homecoming with Justin Bieber though, would she? F**k no. Wake your ass up. You've been rejected.

Case closed.
 

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is that congruent with her personality?

I.E, is she normally shy and quiet and soft spoken, or did the loud mouthed party girl who gets drunk and wakes up in a dumpster in Connecticut every weekend tell you that?

one of those girls would be telling the truth, the other is lying.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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Its rare to see her talk loudly with her friends. From what I've seen so far, shyness seems to be congruent to her personality.
 
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