"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She says shes "not ready for that kind of committment"

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So I've been getting the signals. She tells me she likes me. Acts like she likes me. Everything was going good. She even asked me to her homecoming (but ended up ditching it for a festival) and I try to take it one step further and she says she isnt ready for commitment. Wtf. Maybe I ****ed up somewhere recently. I'm pretty sure of it. I got really emo today and started popping some pills. Then during my coming down I got pissed at her. Then I was like oh, i miss you blah blah. And **** dude. Idk. she still wants to hang out with me. but like. she is the kinda girl who wont even makeout after 3 months. like it took her that long with her last bf. and she is a virgin. i wanted to go out with her cause i like her, and wanted to speed **** up. but now im like wtf.

im talking to her now. and i suggested an open relationship. i asked her if she would mind me dating other girls. and she thinks its wrong to do that and says she wont kiss other guys. so idk what the **** she wants out of this. **** test maybe?
 

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I think that regardless of what your situation actually entails, based off what you have said... moving on would be your best bet. Life is too short to play silly mind games.
 
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Scars said:
... and I try to take it one step further and she says she isnt ready for commitment. ...
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What exactly did you do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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