"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok so long story short ive hung out with this girl twice before and on our 2nd outing we chilled had some drinks and ending up kissing at the end of the night. So tonight i didnt have anything to do so i asked her if she wanted to come chill for a bit and maybe watch a movie or something...and she responds with "No thanks, i dont like to do that "watch a movie at my place" thing with a guy i just met, i know the true meaning behind it...dont even front"

So whats the verdict here.....should i just chill for a bit and if im interested enough ask her OUT sometime soon and see where it goes or just forget about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That's her first strike IMO. I can't stand girls who play the "I know all of guy's tricks" game. It's a **** test dude.

She's basically screening you to see if you do this with all girls (inviting over for a movie usually means you want sex).

But ya I'd just act sarcastically oblivious. Like "So you don't like movies? Wanna come over and play monopoly?" Something that shows you that you ARE a player but in a funny/ non threatening way.
 
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i've had a pretty similar situation, whatever you do don't force the sex to happen on your terms and timing. be patient with her. try seeing her on a regular basis and continue the kissing then the situation should manifest into the two of you being alone together somewhere private.
 
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"I know, watching a movie at my place is a big step with someone you've just met. How about you just come over and we have sex instead?"
:p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheBucketOfTruth said:
"I know, watching a movie at my place is a big step with someone you've just met. How about you just come over and we have sex instead?"
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lmao, thanks you made my day with that one. It reminds me of one time when i was feeling down and a female co-worker I was close to says to me. When we get off work lets go to my place and have sex. I thought that was very funny and it cheered me up. (No, i didn't follow up on it because she had strung me along in the past but it was totally random and funny).
 
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