"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She says " I know the true meaning.."

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Ok so long story short ive hung out with this girl twice before and on our 2nd outing we chilled had some drinks and ending up kissing at the end of the night. So tonight i didnt have anything to do so i asked her if she wanted to come chill for a bit and maybe watch a movie or something...and she responds with "No thanks, i dont like to do that "watch a movie at my place" thing with a guy i just met, i know the true meaning behind it...dont even front"

So whats the verdict here.....should i just chill for a bit and if im interested enough ask her OUT sometime soon and see where it goes or just forget about it?
 

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That's her first strike IMO. I can't stand girls who play the "I know all of guy's tricks" game. It's a **** test dude.

She's basically screening you to see if you do this with all girls (inviting over for a movie usually means you want sex).

But ya I'd just act sarcastically oblivious. Like "So you don't like movies? Wanna come over and play monopoly?" Something that shows you that you ARE a player but in a funny/ non threatening way.
 
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i've had a pretty similar situation, whatever you do don't force the sex to happen on your terms and timing. be patient with her. try seeing her on a regular basis and continue the kissing then the situation should manifest into the two of you being alone together somewhere private.
 
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"I know, watching a movie at my place is a big step with someone you've just met. How about you just come over and we have sex instead?"
:p
 

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TheBucketOfTruth said:
"I know, watching a movie at my place is a big step with someone you've just met. How about you just come over and we have sex instead?"
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lmao, thanks you made my day with that one. It reminds me of one time when i was feeling down and a female co-worker I was close to says to me. When we get off work lets go to my place and have sex. I thought that was very funny and it cheered me up. (No, i didn't follow up on it because she had strung me along in the past but it was totally random and funny).
 
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