She says "I dont think its fair for my boyfriend..."

[Colinski282]

So after sharing alot of missed memories the conversation escalated and she said she missed talking to me and i was the only bf that ever did this or that...atfer a few more things said she says "Sorry if i ever hurt u but i dont think that its fair to my bf that i talk to you so u be careful and ill check up on u in a few months"


Ermm how to respond to this if i want to pursue

 

[TONYMONTANA523]

If u persue she will run away and in the process she will becom your one itis. My advice is to just let her be call on holidays,birthdays, sh@t like that so your in her mind.

 

[( . )( . )]

Your not pursuing sh!t with this one.

Rack it up to another fvckup, throw "missed memories" and "escalated conversations" out of your toolbox......tomorrow's another day.

 

[Colinski282]

Ya i definetly need to give her space, i dont wanna sweat her, itll make it worse.

 

[Flabbergasped?]

This is what most prudes say when you hit on them, even though they very clearly don't have a bf.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

So after sharing alot of missed memories the conversation escalated and she said she missed talking to me and i was the only bf that ever did this or that...atfer a few more things said she says "Sorry if i ever hurt u but i dont think that its fair to my bf that i talk to you so u be careful and ill check up on u in a few months"


Ermm how to respond to this if i want to pursue

"Check up on you"? sounds like she thinks ur some experiment or something


start runnin and never look back :woo:

 

[Latinoman]

"Sorry if i ever hurt u but i dont think that its fair to my bf that i talk to you so u be careful and ill check up on u in a few months"

Dude...I'm assuming you are over 18 years old and so is this girl. If you OR she are younger...then ignore the advice, because it won't work. If both of you are in your 20s or 30s...then you are alright.

Here is what I would have said:

"LOL...don't waste your time. Fact is, in a 'few months' I WILL be with a woman. If you continue talking with me, YOU will be that woman as I will introduce you to things you have never experience before as I'm not the same man that you used to date. If you stop talking with me, you are NOT going to be that woman. You have the key to this door. So, you decide: be fair to your bf or be fair to yourself."

However, here is my TRUE advice. Do not waste your time with "ex girlfriends".

 

[Maximus Rex]

So after sharing alot of missed memories the conversation escalated and she said she missed talking to me and i was the only bf that ever did this or that...atfer a few more things said she says "Sorry if i ever hurt u but i dont think that its fair to my bf that i talk to you so u be careful and ill check up on u in a few months"


Ermm how to respond to this if i want to pursue

You OBVIOUSLY weren't one of the 538 people who view my thread entitled " The Nine Signs of Little Or No Interest," otherwise you wouldn't of asked this question. So I'm going to be a nice guy and copy and paste the two replies that apply to you:

1) She'll Tell You This my boys is a effin' God send. You have a chick that actually has the balls and the common decency to tell you that she's doesn't want to talk to you. What more could you want? No ambiguities. No duplicitous actions. No communicating. It's right there in plain English, SHE DOESN'T WANT TO F*CK WITH YOU!!! With all that being said. There should be NO ONE coming into this site asking how to get a chick to like you that has already said, she isn't interested.

2) She Has A Boyfriend I hate to even have to include this one in here, but at least once a week some idiot will come on sosuave asking how to get a chick with a boyfriend. I have asked on many occasions why these morons want unavailable women, (AND YES YOUR A MORON!!!) but I have yet to get an answer to that question. I'm not talking about a chick that's has a boyfriend and she's pursuing you, (which is the only time that hollerin' at a chick with a man is acceptable.) I'm talking about the guys that are infatuated with chick that's already in a commited relationship. These dudes are stupid enough to believe that just because they're with a chick, they call her, and and sometimes hang out with her when her boyfriend's not around, means that he actually has a shot at seeing her naked. NO A$$HOLE!!! YOUR FEEDING THE MONSTER BIG TIME AND YOUR PLAYING RIGHT INTO HER ATTENTION WH*RING!!! WORSE OF ALL YOUR IN THE FRIEND'S ZONE AND YOU DON'T EVEN REALIZE IT!!!! Since I've explained it, can we now all stop with the "How To Get A Chick With A Boyfriend Bullsh*t?

 

[Derek Flint]

HB: "I have a Boyfriend"

DJ: "No problem - I'm not the jealous type"