"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She sais "I'm not good enough for you"

Climax

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Situation:

Girl sais to guy that they are not going to work out because:

1) She isnt "good enough" for you

2) She doesnt treat you right

3) She is just baggage and is not worth the effort, and you treat her so well, and she doesnt terat u as well, and that u deserve better

4) The 2 of you always fight because she keeps on making mistakes and isnt good enough

5) sais that you deserve someone better than her, and that the 2 of you just wont work because u just dont see things in the same way


It could mean:

That she is just looking for excuses to break up with you and is just trying to do it in an "undercover" way in order not to urt you...

or

She is being genuine and really DOES think that (the above 5 points)...


Backround:

The guy and the girl became friends about 1 year ago, they became really close, BEST FRIENDS close, then one day they told one another that they actually liked eachother.then from there they fell in love with eachother.

Their Problem:

They always use to argue and fight over things because they never saw them in the same way (Eg: They went to the same school, and she was "shy" to hold his hand in school, and he got pissed off and didnt know why on Earth she would be shy about something like that, and that would lead to a heated argument) etc...

Another Problem:

He would always be affectionate towards her, and in person she would always kinda "hide" her feelings for him in public, and this alos pissed him off. ( Note: she had no reason to be ashamed of him because he was a model material looking guy and was/is liked by most people) He baught her stuff, gave her a Valentines gift, all of that, and she didnt "return the favour" but still claimed to love him.

Overall Cause For Their Probels:

The 2 of them just didnt see things in the "same light" / Same way, which would lead to arguments.

What makes me think she DID really love him:

She would always cry and be depressed and sad for days on end when the 2 of them faught etc, she was/is a very honest person (From what ihave heard from her bf.. err.. ex gf and friends.) And apparently all she ever spoke about was him him him.

So:

Whats going on in this girls head?

Does she REALLY think that she "isnt good enough" for this guy, or what?:rolleyes:


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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"I'm not good enough for you" = "You're not good enough for me"
 

SageOFAllenAge

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Under normal circumstances it would translate as "You are'nt good enough for me" but in this situation I'd like to know too ..
 

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she has problems. Needs a shrink.

she was "shy" to hold his hand in school
Shy my ass. I'd dump her after that. Why would I want to be with someone who doesnt want to be seen with me or is proud/happy about our relationship?
 

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womem women women.... tsk tsk tsk....

AverageFC: I agree with u 100%:p

SageOFAllenAge and Gangster Of Love: I dought that she thinks that HE isnt good enought for HER, because in this situation, in my opinion, she really ISNT good enough for him, she has issues and problems that he doesnt need in his life;) He has treated her like gold, and she has treated him like ****, and i guess the guilt got too much for her in this case:rolleyes: *sigh* ... WOMEN!:mad: :D

Anyways... If there are any changes etc, i'll keep u guys posted;)


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tmpgstx

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She just needs someone. She is a co-dependent type of person, and he being the one she is dependent, but she doesn't love him. She does have problems and is shy, so is in a rut in terms of meeting anyone else she could potentially love and see eye to eye with.
 

Centaurion

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I dont want to be the party-pooper here, but you guys seriously need to stop overanalyzing everything. You can't get any more cliche then "You're too good for me/I'm not good enough for you".

Wake up and smell the fart dude, you have now arrived at Dumpsville - population YOU!
 

Climax

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w00t! Life is sweet!

Originally posted by Centaurion
I dont want to be the party-pooper here, but you guys seriously need to stop overanalyzing everything. You can't get any more cliche then "You're too good for me/I'm not good enough for you".

Wake up and smell the fart dude, you have now arrived at Dumpsville - population YOU!

LOL!!! trust me, she never dumped him, she actually asked him to dump HER cause she never felt "worthy" enogh" or some bullsh!t like that... but i guess the result is the same, he didnt WANT the breakup, but it happened.. oh well:rolleyes: At least he will come join me now for the launching of M.P;) (Master Plan) <--- Something myself and a friend of mine (Don_Joffe) have been planning for a while now.


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Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Situation:

1) She isnt "good enough" for you
I have only seen this happen a couple of times, but every time I have heard a girl say this to either myself or another guy... she has been absolutely right!

They know deep down that they aren't good enough for you, but at the same time they are trying to lay a guilt trip on you and blow up their low self esteem by you telling them that "No, you are wonderful and I am so lucky to have you!"

If a girl tries this on you, save yourself the drama and just say "Okay, fair enough then..." and walk away.
 

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I'v had enough of chicks and their BULL****!

If i have learned one thing from chicks, they are ALL f*cked up in their own way, so there is no point wasting your time with those woman that are as confusing and complicated as that... if they give u sh!t, then just tell them to f*ckoff, simple, i have no time for b!tches with issues... They wanna play mind games, give me mixed signals, ANY of that ****, i simply tell them to f*ckoff, and i move along to the next babe that i spot, and one thing is for sure, and that is the fact that there are MANY babes out there just WAITING to get sedused!

DONT TAKE **** FROM WOMAN!!

Mess with the best, and i'll leave u to die with the rest! M.P. initiation is in progress, prepare for total domination!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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