"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she said yes!

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So I asked this cute7 to join me for coffee after work tomorrow. She gave me a yes. This is the one who I have been talking with at work for a bit.

Why not one more shot.

Now to see if she flakes
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I told ya you have nothing to lose to ask again.

Now, no boring talk, keep it fun, light kino, and if you get the chance kiss her.
 

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hmmmmmmmm want a real tip..........MOVE ON, DON'T CALL HER. IF she says when u going call, you didnt call.....THEN U GOT HER. U GOT HER LOCKED UP IF SHE SAIS ANYTHING remotely like that.

IF she expects your call and knows you will.........THEN U DONT CALL.......it will make her crazy and get her thinking WTF.

or you can call, get the date.......etc.

but the first one SUPER CHARGES THE SITUATION..........but dont wait too long.
 

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slitherjef said:
So I asked this cute7 to join me for coffee after work tomorrow. She gave me a yes. This is the one who I have been talking with at work for a bit.

Why not one more shot.

Now to see if she flakes
:cheer: Keep us posted.
 

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slitherjef said:
So I asked this cute7 to join me for coffee after work tomorrow. She gave me a yes. This is the one who I have been talking with at work for a bit.

Why not one more shot.

Now to see if she flakes
So, what about the other piece of the puzzle???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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slitherjef said:
Ummm.... what other piece of the puzzle ??? :confused:
The one posted in your original thread.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Not being lame.
Good guess but the other piece was a little more specific... ;)
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Good guess but the other piece was a little more specific... ;)
Um, don't talk about work. Of course not, that place sucks. Try to keep the focus on her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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slitherjef said:
Shesh... making me study LOL :)

No talkie about work or past
You want a second date don'cha? ;)
 
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