"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she said shes scared

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well, she said she's scared that she might her virginity to the wrong guy(w/c is me)...

she's not really that liberated as we're asians. and i'm the 1st to make sexual advances to her...and she's said things are going too fast(we're just about 3 weeks)and she's scared...

i dunno, i really like this girl and i dont wanna mess up...I've fvck several girls and i really feel different about her.

I said that i dont know if i can hold myslef back coz my feelings for her is strong. then she asked me if i feel the same way to the other girls ive fvcked. i told her that things are different now, coz if there'll be something going to happen between us,it was about love(w/c is true).

how could the DJs handle the situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A DJ would go get another girl because you're leaving power in falling for her.

My opinion is that you're not even falling for her but you're still leaving power.
My final advice is: stay with her and be the boss.
 
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power?

how did i gave her power?

im just being sensitive as i feel the need to build rapport and intimacy so that i can fvck her...

i've always been dominant and very sexual and she's frightened about it cause this the farthest she've gone with a man is frenching (no she's not fvgly, she's hot)...

how should i act like a boss in that situation?
 
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edit: obviously, everyone round here has made different experiences. Perhaps my previous advice was a little over-the-top. We all come from different points of view.

I wanted to point out that, while patience is important, waiting forever would be also a bad idea. Of course you can't force yourself onto her, especially not since she's a virgin.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just don't. push. her.
she's female, that's female virginity. i do suggest you to wait until you can't take the situation anymore (and leave) or she gives you up. just be in control of yourself and she will love you back. want some cheap sex - get a hooker, want real love - compromise a bit.
 
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i clearly stated what i want...

she knows that...thats why she scared..

im just askin what words to say...

you guys are way off
 
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people on here give the worst advice. i would stick with her man. it seems like you like her. wait till shes ready.
 
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