"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She said she's going to the football game tomorow.

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So, there's this girl I've gotten to know a little bit recently, but I haven't number closed her yet. She initiated kino, and I went along with it a little, but I haven't seen her in about 4 days or so. Generally, we don't talk for too long, about 10-15 minutes.

So, let's say I see her there tomorrow, early on in the game.


How long should I hang out with her? Should I merely hang out with her for a few minutes, number close, finish up some talk and eject? Should I hang out with her all day? I asked her at freshman orientation if she was planning on going to the football games, and she said. "Hell Yeah!" and I told her I would be as well, so we may run into each other. I'm just not sure how to handle the situation. I suppose if everything is going good, I'll just hang out for a little while.... idk?

She may or may not even be there, but if she does show up, I'd like to have a game plan.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonJuan11

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Just Another Guy.... said:
So, there's this girl I've gotten to know a little bit recently, but I haven't number closed her yet. She initiated kino, and I went along with it a little, but I haven't seen her in about 4 days or so. Generally, we don't talk for too long, about 10-15 minutes.

So, let's say I see her there tomorrow, early on in the game.


How long should I hang out with her? Should I merely hang out with her for a few minutes, number close, finish up some talk and eject? Should I hang out with her all day? I asked her at freshman orientation if she was planning on going to the football games, and she said. "Hell Yeah!" and I told her I would be as well, so we may run into each other. I'm just not sure how to handle the situation. I suppose if everything is going good, I'll just hang out for a little while.... idk?

She may or may not even be there, but if she does show up, I'd like to have a game plan.

Hang out with her for 18 min and 36 seconds. That is the magic number
 

Rex Man

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Yeah um, What Friv said. PLUS, why the hell haven't you # closed yet. She can't even take you serious until you get serious. Get her fvcking # THEN ask questions.

God that's like me asking how to breast stroke but being to chicken to get in the water. Man Up. :box:
 

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Yeah, you're going into battle with nothing. Did you sense any real interest from her?

I would go to the game, find her, hang out with her for a few minutes, and then get her number. Don't leave immediatlely after gettting the number...hang around and feel out the situation...... you'll know when to stay/leave BE YOURSELF
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ManOfMystery

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just go there but dont search for her, if you run into her talk to her...she initated kino so shes obv a little interested, get her number before its too late. then work your game cuz you have her number
 
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We've talked twice and I really wasn't interested in her too much..... but as we talked more and the fact that I don't see her too much all kinda pools together some strange attractiveness towards her.

Anyway, it sounds like if I find her, I'll just kinda be myself and do what we usually do, get her number, hang out for a few more minutes and head out.... sounds good.
 
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