“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she said she would text me but didnt

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pyros said:
So there is this 19 years old chick who I met like two months ago, I went on seven dates with her, banged her once, then had a one month break because of some misunderstanding etc.

Last week we went to play some pool, made out etc. Last Monday I said that we should go to the movies on Saturday, she agreed. Today she texted me in the morning, I reminded her that we were suposed to meet to go to the movies but she said:

her: Im not sure, I have to go to X first and not sure when I'll be able to come back, I'll let you know.

me: if you cannot make it we can go some other time. Let me now as soon as you can

her: ok, I'll text you in an hour.



Well, she did not text. I sense that she's seing another dude so it seems now I am option B.

Anyway, any ideas or suggestions on how to proceed? Im not texting her again since she flaked on me.
The red was a horrible reply. You showed your plans revolve around her and you're desperate. You should've replied. "No biggie. Maybe next time." and ended the convo. (If this story is even true.)

1st when a chick or anyone says they'll "let you know". They just did let you "No". She could've just had plans and been busy. No biggie.

And just because some chick wasn't interested in going to the movies with you doesn't mean she's automatically fvcking some high priority model fitness instructor.

You offered. She declined = "Forgot".

The ball is in her court. Move on till then.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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