"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she said she dates

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So i met this girl in my building.

Right away im all being ****y. I ask her life stories etc.
Then im all like so do you have a bf, married, etc lol

She says, ...well, i date, but im not with someone.


So...was that like an indication of i should work on her more?
I dont know why, but today i thought maybe she left herself open for a reason....

Not to be too conceited but any girl should be lucky to have me and blah blah blah....just curious as to what that meant.

Or was it more like, i do date, but ur not my type....fyi scenerio letting me down easy before i even ask
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Means you should go for it

She dates so ask her out on a date

I've often fvcked girls in live in the same apartment building its all good :)
 

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Dude, whats stopping me from believing in your wise words haha, idk...

Fear of rejection i guess....
 

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But now that im picturing her taco squirming....im over my anxiety....lol thanks buddy
 
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