PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Hair is minor IMO, when you really think about it its just hair
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
she said no because im bald
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nismo-4
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Like I said, there's infinite reasons that you get rejected.
1. You have a android phone
2. You're not an Aries
3. You cheer for Ohio State
4. Your feet are too big
5. You're bald
6. Hair too short
7. Hair too long
8. Hair not in dreadlocks
9. Too young
10. Too old
11. Hung up on the ex
12. Too tall
13. Too short
14. Call too much
15. Don't call enough
16. Don't call at all
17. Likes football
18. Doesn't follow football
19. Likes a sports team
20. Dislikes a sports team
21. Doesn't like the sport at all
22. Doesn't have a favorite team
23. Isn't a celebrity
24. Isn't a millionaire
25. Has white teeth
26. Doesn't have enough teeth
27. Likes Super Mario over Zelda
28. Plays PS4 or Nintendo Switch over Xbox
29. Doesn't have social media
30. Hasn't been on TV
31. You're wearing colors she doesn't like
32. Your clothes aren't Armani
Most of these are just shallow, and you shouldn't want a woman like this in your life any god damn way.
Then there's these:
1. You moved too slow/ fast
2. You over/ undersold yourself
3. You were too conservative/ not enough
4. You showed too much/ little interest
5. You were too touchy/ not enough
6. You were too nice/ mean
7. You said the wrong thing/ not enough
8. You spoke too much /little
9. You gave too much/ little attention
10. You were too clean/ dirty
11. You kissed at the wrong time/ not at all
12. You were too bold/ not enough
Regardless, there's only so much you have control over. No different than a job interview, where HR has control over who's hired and who's not.
Control what you can, you never know when you'll come in first place!
1. You have a android phone
2. You're not an Aries
3. You cheer for Ohio State
4. Your feet are too big
5. You're bald
6. Hair too short
7. Hair too long
8. Hair not in dreadlocks
9. Too young
10. Too old
11. Hung up on the ex
12. Too tall
13. Too short
14. Call too much
15. Don't call enough
16. Don't call at all
17. Likes football
18. Doesn't follow football
19. Likes a sports team
20. Dislikes a sports team
21. Doesn't like the sport at all
22. Doesn't have a favorite team
23. Isn't a celebrity
24. Isn't a millionaire
25. Has white teeth
26. Doesn't have enough teeth
27. Likes Super Mario over Zelda
28. Plays PS4 or Nintendo Switch over Xbox
29. Doesn't have social media
30. Hasn't been on TV
31. You're wearing colors she doesn't like
32. Your clothes aren't Armani
Most of these are just shallow, and you shouldn't want a woman like this in your life any god damn way.
Then there's these:
1. You moved too slow/ fast
2. You over/ undersold yourself
3. You were too conservative/ not enough
4. You showed too much/ little interest
5. You were too touchy/ not enough
6. You were too nice/ mean
7. You said the wrong thing/ not enough
8. You spoke too much /little
9. You gave too much/ little attention
10. You were too clean/ dirty
11. You kissed at the wrong time/ not at all
12. You were too bold/ not enough
Regardless, there's only so much you have control over. No different than a job interview, where HR has control over who's hired and who's not.
Control what you can, you never know when you'll come in first place!
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Murk
Master Don Juan
The reason you get rejected is mostly because of your looks, approach/personality.or both. It's not shallow for a girl to reject you on those things. We reject them on looks too. We don't really reject on personality though if they're hot because we want the bang.
casanova
Don Juan
thanks for all of the answers