"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she said it, but during sex

blackhatter

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Been seeing this chick for 2 or 3 months now. She hasn't really pulled the "i love you" until the other night.

We were walking home from a party and it just so happens I had a rental car (suv). Feeling a little sauced up and horny, I threw her into the back of the car and ended up having a 30min session with her in the back, drilling the hell out of her.

Right as I was about to come, she gripped my neck and said "I love you". I responded with "I know", feeling very in command at the time. Now this was the first time she said it, but it's also been 3 days since and she hasn't said it since. Was she just loving the sex?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's either in love with you or loves your spontaneity. Don't change, and don't tell her you love her until she's sober and says it first.
 

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She loved you pounding her like a sailor in a bar fight thats all.
 

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she dont love you, she love the drilling action dude.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is how I used to program my women. Just before they came drop a suggestion in their minds. I call it mindfvcking. She was doing her version on you to land you.

I hope she at least got a nut out of all that drilling you did.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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She loved the pounding. But, does she love you? Well, from what I learned when a girl tells you she loves you first she means it. Was she drunk and it was the alcohol talking? Who knows it no big deal. I'd say you got a girlfriend who most likely likes you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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keep drillin her...her feelings will go stronger...
But not let her control your emotions
 

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blackhatter said:
Been seeing this chick for 2 or 3 months now. She hasn't really pulled the "i love you" until the other night.

We were walking home from a party and it just so happens I had a rental car (suv). Feeling a little sauced up and horny, I threw her into the back of the car and ended up having a 30min session with her in the back, drilling the hell out of her.

Right as I was about to come, she gripped my neck and said "I love you". I responded with "I know", feeling very in command at the time. Now this was the first time she said it, but it's also been 3 days since and she hasn't said it since. Was she just loving the sex?
My hero. Just one thing, like the other posters said.. think nothing of it.
 
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